get a girl to notice you...

I'm probably more interested in what my ears see than what my eyes see when it comes to guys.

 

The Paradoxically Preplexing, but TRUE Response to the Original Question: (how do you get a girl to notice you?)

By not caring if she notices you or not! That drives them wild, and makes you a challenge. We all love a challenge. (Think about it, are the girls who YOU find most attractive already fawning all over you?)

You have to really not care though, you can't just pretend. That's the trick.

 

Throw spit wads at her.. That always gets their attention.





Just kidding

 

Umm, either that or it totally back fires... I'd say it's waay to risky

 

The problem with this approach is, that by the time they finally admit to one another that they love each other, they'll probably be too old to enjoy sex.

The only thing that drives me wild (and not in a good way) is when guys practically dribble down their legs trying to ask me out.

 

If you want her to notice you, be confident... Don't ask random people about what to do, be yourself and be sure that's right... And if your gonna ask her out , like novaone said, be confident... Walk up to her and ask, like there's no chance in hell she's gonna say no to you, that works much better...

Confidence is key!

 

I don't want to disappoint you,but this could be what some people call an infatuation,
especially if she looks anything remotedly as stereotypically beautiful as the blonde in
that photo. Otherwise, don't waste time. When she makes eye contact smile at her.
If you make conversation be yourself,don't try to be hilarious, be a good listener and
don't resort to 'dutch courage' ie alcohol (if you see her outside class) or you will just
make a fool of yourself. God,I sound like Clare Rayner! By the way 'Hello' I'm new.

 

well once again i missed an oppurtunity i didnt know what to say honestly i cant say "hey emily" randomly i cant that is weird aand i cant start a convo ause she doesnt ssit right next to me so i cnt like go out of my way to say "hey this class sucks" firk frik frik dude i will miss my oppurtunity and homecoming is also in like a month

 

mmmk, step 1: get off the internet. Internet socialization does NOTHING to help you with face to face socialization. Just do it, what's the worst that can happen? she says no? Well, if you never ask her you aren't gonna hang/go out with her anyways.

 

Point 1: it is 11 o clock, there is no where else for me to go

and what am i asking her 'hey so do you wanna see a movie or somjetiing' wtf, you cant just say that all the sudden they will be like ' um... i dont really know you .. sorry'

so the whole if i never sak i won't hang out that isnt entirely true if i dont say that and dont make a fool of myslef i wait for next oppurtunity and pull something more casual and less awkward but i am trying to find another way so i dont have to wait for her to acomplish something to compliment her on or whatever

 

it isnt an "infatuation"... i could tell you that much... she isnt your steroetypical hot blonde and this isnt just a crush this is someone i jst want to see everyday not just have sex with her or go out with her at least just see her everyday that is all i need but what i would like is to meet her and talk and see how she is

 

If she says i dont really know u then belike u can get to know me O ya i got that off a movie watch movies like that movie grind where that guy just walks up to girls and goes soo wanna make out? no but seriously just do it if she says no just be like ok umm bye and if ur too embaresed to talk to her again then dont just DO IT

 

Do u have a mutual friend or some1 crazy enough 2 help u out? Safety in numbers but small numbers otherwise it's scary. Also, once u do get her attention just be friendly and mostly straight forward, it's no fun 2 be confused.

 

i dont want to have to be too embarassed to talk to her again i dont want to blow my oppurtunity i wanna do it perfect so it works out

 

Yeah, ok but what do i do with my friend say hey to her with my friend with me i mean that is still the same awkward moment and "once you get her attention" that ismy problem i only need a way to get her attention people nothing else i can handle it from there just getting her to notice me is impossiblr

 

I mean you could just bump into her in the hallway or join the group when your mutual friend is around so then you get to know her through them. So then it's like "hey, I know you trhough so and so" or "Blank, told me you liked...I'm into that 2." Once you find out some link it's so easy to be around each other.

 

well, i guess you could casually talk to one of her friends if that would be easier. you will get a good indication of the kind of person she is by her friends. if she hangs out with rude bitchy girls, you might be barking up the wrong tree. if her friends are nice, thats a good start, especially if you have talked to one of them before, maybe you could start talking to them more especially if she is nearby and might walk up and join in. then you could mention that you have never been introduced yet so her friend could introduce you or do it yourself. that would at least get her attention and from then on maybe you could talk to her more easily.

shit you are in school dude, any excuse could be used. could i borrow a pencil, i lost my notes, could i copy yours, what? you suck at math, here let me tutor you.......

but why don't you make a move soon before you drive us all crazy, huh?

 

haha yeah but she doesnt sit right next to me so it would be lke i go way out of my way to ask her for a pencil when i could ask the person sitting by me but the friends idea was real good advice infact i just imed one of them because she was with THE GIRL and i saw something funny happen or whatever to her so i brought it up and then we talked VERY shortly about it haha and then she was just like ok i g2g ttyl or whatever and this is like her best friend so i think when i see her in the hall i can start talking to this girl and that whole thing where THE GIRL will come up and join yeah that is good so lets see if this goes well (btw the girl i just talked to the FRIEND goes to THE GIRL's locker after like every period so it would be a really good thing if i was talking to her and following her to THE GIRL's locker and ran into THE GIRL and just said hey what an icebreaker hahaha)

well i g2g skool

 

just go up to her and deck her in the face, then she'll know exactly wh o you are, good luck buddy

 

well, good. hope it goes well. when you do start talking to her, refer to my earlier post.... for further inspiration. lol