hi i hope i dont upset you all by asking this i dont meen to. wen i was 14 -16 i fellt the same feelings about some of my guy mates as i did girls i did not know that my mates did not feel the same and thats wiy i thort you chose to be gay. now i think i my be bi and just coming out of 18 year str8t relalson ship. and thinking about sex with guys. as all ways have some of the time and and girls some of the time too and some time i see a boy and girl frend and think a bout haveing sex with both of them at the same time. so dus this meen i chose to be str8t or it meen that i am just that i am bi love you all lost boy
if you typed better, I might be able ot better answer your question. But as far as choice goes in choosing your sexuality, I believe that there is no choice. There only choice one has is whether they follow their own sexuality or not. And also, oyu could CHOOSE to have sex with a guy, even if you're straight, but you CANT choose whether youre gay or bi.
You can choose who you have sex with and who you have a relationship with, but you can't choose who you are attracted to. Having said that, I realize that there are people out there--and they seem to be more women than men--who claim that they have chosen. I can also tell you that I spent more than a year in a program designed to change people from gay to heterosexual. It didn't work. My point is that I wanted to choose to be heterosexual, but it wasn't an option for me. These days I'm very happy about being exclusively gay.
Life is short....Live Large...Live free..Love Alot....worry less....and have sex with who you wish....I hate "tags"..I have made love and had sex with each...It's all good. To me, sex is a spritual bond between two(or even more). It's not a quick nut and see ya, but a real sharing of each others hearts and bodies. Might see that person again, might not....But for that moment in time---you are much more than your physical form..This is only my opinion and I did not stay at a Holiday Inn last night, so...take my blab is it helps and throw it out if it doesn't......For those out there with guilts, hurts, pain....I honestly pray that you find love begining with yourself....Humbly go I, Kevin
LOSTBOY7, it sounds to me like you're Bi. I don't think you can choose what you find atractive, you can only choose what actions you will decide to take.
