would you allow your significant other to trade nudies with others?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by redryder, Sep 8, 2005.

  1. redryder

    redryder Member

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    assuming you were in a long distance relationship would you be okay with your SigOther trading nudie pics, or would it make you uncomfortable?

    and better yet, if you are married/living with or near your SigOther would you be okay with it? would it make a difference?



    i know i used the word "allow" which seems a little controlling, but the boundaries of a relationship (especially sexual ones) need to be communicated and agreed upon between the two ppl. Right?
     
  2. toolmaggot

    toolmaggot Nuts Go Here.

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    Well I think long distance relationships are pretty pointless.

    Even more pointless than regular ones.

    But I wouldn't give a damn if I had a significant other and they posted naked pictures of themselves on the internet.
     
  3. redryder

    redryder Member

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    well i was thinking like emailing back and forth with a particular person... but yeah, long distance relationships are usually pointless.
     
  4. dangermoose

    dangermoose Is a daddy

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    specific trading my gf and i don't do, but general sharing with teh internet community as a whole we have no problem with. if i was living with her then i wouldnt care if she traded with someone specificly.
     
  5. redryder

    redryder Member

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    so you don't feel comfortable with her trading with individual ppl right now, since you aren't living together?
     
  6. dangermoose

    dangermoose Is a daddy

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    well, right now, i'd be open to the possibility, but thats not the way we have things set up between us. it just makes things easier for the jealousy factor in all long distance relationships....now that i've actually had sex with her i know that i'll have experienced something with her that no amount of trading pics with someone else, will ever reproduce. but since all we can really do is trade pics, or appear live on webcam, it limits our relationship to the same limits as trading with someone else..
     
  7. ZePpeLinA

    ZePpeLinA Jump around!

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    yeah absolutely
     
  8. Libertine

    Libertine Guru of Hedonopia

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    I think you ought to agree on the terms of your relationship and never violate them without good reason.

    I wouldn't have a problem with it myself, but I am extremely liberal and open. I would never be in a stuffy relationship with a host of puritanical rules.

    I would and I would mind my partner doing it either.
     
  9. mynameiskc

    mynameiskc way to go noogs!

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    nope. not a problem in this relationship.
     
  10. Oz!

    Oz! Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    man, i nearly caused a bleedin' divorce through that once (her hubby didn't know, and found out) :H
     
  11. KozmicBlue

    KozmicBlue Senior Member

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    I'd have a big problem with that. If he wanted to post nude pics on the internet for everyone to see, then I guess I'd be ok with that but trading them with a particular person... that just makes it too personal.
     
  12. Lodui

    Lodui One Man Orgy

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    I've seen Patrick naked.

    I thought the jello was very tasteful. [​IMG]
     
  13. Raving Sultan

    Raving Sultan Banned

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    Ladies, feel free to pm me nude pics in the spirit of this thread
     
  14. KozmicBlue

    KozmicBlue Senior Member

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    That was my idea. :H
     
  15. mynameiskc

    mynameiskc way to go noogs!

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    well, then, you didn't nearly cause the divorce. she did.
     
  16. Oz!

    Oz! Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    well, yeah, technically i suppose.......
     
  17. Hippievixen

    Hippievixen Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    I'm with you, Libertine :)

    I think trading photos or webcamming is *better* than porn... and cheaper in the long run, too... home-made :)
     
  18. jonsworld

    jonsworld Member

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    i agree with hippievixen, amature porn rulz and its alot better then the stuff out there now and it is cheaper and funner to do.
     
  19. mrpwonder

    mrpwonder Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    I've had nude pics on the web for a long time. I love the amt web cam. I have no prb with my partner.


    Paul
     
  20. searching4nirvana

    searching4nirvana Member

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    i agree
     
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