would you allow your significant other to trade nudies with others?

assuming you were in a long distance relationship would you be okay with your SigOther trading nudie pics, or would it make you uncomfortable?

and better yet, if you are married/living with or near your SigOther would you be okay with it? would it make a difference?



i know i used the word "allow" which seems a little controlling, but the boundaries of a relationship (especially sexual ones) need to be communicated and agreed upon between the two ppl. Right?

 

Well I think long distance relationships are pretty pointless.

Even more pointless than regular ones.

But I wouldn't give a damn if I had a significant other and they posted naked pictures of themselves on the internet.

 

well i was thinking like emailing back and forth with a particular person... but yeah, long distance relationships are usually pointless.

 

specific trading my gf and i don't do, but general sharing with teh internet community as a whole we have no problem with. if i was living with her then i wouldnt care if she traded with someone specificly.

 

so you don't feel comfortable with her trading with individual ppl right now, since you aren't living together?

 

well, right now, i'd be open to the possibility, but thats not the way we have things set up between us. it just makes things easier for the jealousy factor in all long distance relationships....now that i've actually had sex with her i know that i'll have experienced something with her that no amount of trading pics with someone else, will ever reproduce. but since all we can really do is trade pics, or appear live on webcam, it limits our relationship to the same limits as trading with someone else..

 

yeah absolutely

 

I think you ought to agree on the terms of your relationship and never violate them without good reason.

I wouldn't have a problem with it myself, but I am extremely liberal and open. I would never be in a stuffy relationship with a host of puritanical rules.

I would and I would mind my partner doing it either.

 

nope. not a problem in this relationship.

 

man, i nearly caused a bleedin' divorce through that once (her hubby didn't know, and found out) :H

 

I'd have a big problem with that. If he wanted to post nude pics on the internet for everyone to see, then I guess I'd be ok with that but trading them with a particular person... that just makes it too personal.

 

I've seen Patrick naked.

I thought the jello was very tasteful.

 

Ladies, feel free to pm me nude pics in the spirit of this thread

 

That was my idea. :H

 

well, then, you didn't nearly cause the divorce. she did.

 

well, yeah, technically i suppose.......

 

I'm with you, Libertine

I think trading photos or webcamming is *better* than porn... and cheaper in the long run, too... home-made

 

i agree with hippievixen, amature porn rulz and its alot better then the stuff out there now and it is cheaper and funner to do.

 

I've had nude pics on the web for a long time. I love the amt web cam. I have no prb with my partner.


Paul

 

i agree