more than lust

i've reached this point where i want love... at least an element of companionship and freindship and not just lust or trysts or "hanging out" behind a garage at 2am during a party.

 

I can relate. I've been in that state for my past couple of relationships.

 

i don't know if my last "realtionship" even counts as one.

 

yeah. its the way to go. its just getting out of the habit of the other stuff...

 

Definitely agree with UnspokenThings.

 

after being single for three months ive kind of been working alot of this kind of stuff out.

 

I've actually been with someone exclusively for last 4 months and it's been the most wonderful, loving 4 months of my life.

 

its alright to learn this bit (apart from others) about yourself and have it in the back of your head, but to have this moment in your life 'defined' may not be the wisest - coz that'd lead for you to have a checklist for the next relationship. and you don't have to be a genious to know that aint very healthy

what has to happen will happen when it has to happen and who with, you can't put a timeline on it