I'm 16 and I've never made out, been in a relationship, anything like that. I feel like this is really bad because all my friends have had girlfriends/sex/made out. I've had nothing. Am I destined for eternal virginity????? Peace, Love, Pot Joe
I'm 15 and am the same. Its actually not that bad, don't worry or rush it. Its better to find the right person than just play stupid dating games (Well, not really, but probably). When your 30 and a virgin thats when its really bad.
lol you're only half way to 30.... don't worry about it at all. i got my first "french" kiss when i was 16, and didn't have an actual relationship until i was 17. and i thinkn i'm pretty normal and well-adjusted.
Dude, don't stress. My best friend (female) just got engaged to a 28 year old virgin. He's a real cool guy, looks are fine, he's just not a social butterfly. But, believe me, the girl he's engaged to now - his first - is drop dead gorgeous and built like a playmate. Don't stress over this. I was 17 when I lost it... btw...
LOL nah, it's cool man. It only seems a big issue at that age and I can remember feeling the same way but looking back it really made no difference at all and I wonder why I cared. The only sexual experience that really means anything now is with my g/f b/c the relationship isn't based on sex at all. It is funny to look back and see just how bad I was at it then though. I think I was just imitating porn movies at the time lol its only an issue if u make it one
I didn't make out 'til I was 17 and didn't have sex 'til I was 21, but that's because I was trying to hard. Once you stop caring, shit will go your way.
Same way here, bro: 16, male, never had a girlfriend, have 2 or 3 friends at the most, have social anxiety. Don't sweat it; your time to shine will come.
I was 16 when I had my first kiss, so it's no big deal.... it takes a while for some people, no problemo. Better than being a manwhore, right?
Dont stess over it, although if you really do want those experiances just give it a shot, so long as your not sleazy about it no harm can come of it but yeah as the others said its not really a big deal. although i remember at 16 i was very concerned about it so i put as much effort i could into meeting girls and had lots of good times. (also some hard times to but that comes with relationships to).
you just have to be the same as you always are when youre with girls, thats seems to do the trick for me, haha.
my aunts 50 and a virgin and she has the time of her life going out and partying, she doesn't have the worry of thinking about her "other half"... great if you find it hard to be so intimate with someone... so there's no need to worry about it... Keep Rockin' Shadow M xx
Is she a nun or something? I dunno, I'd think that would be depressing, to be 50 and to never have experienced sexual intimacy. She may have the time of her life, but why would she want to abstain completely and eternally from sex?
I'm 16 and I've never made out, been in a relationship, anything like that. I feel like this is really bad because all my friends have had girlfriends/sex/made out. I've had nothing. Am I destined for eternal virginity????? Hi there, My boyfriend, before he met me, had not been in a relationship. He had kissed a couple of girls but it never led to anything. We met when he was 23 and I was 21. I had been in one or two relationships before I met him, but they were pretty much destined to fall apart. At 16 I lost my virginity. Its no big deal. It may feel like its never going to happen for you, but it will. I know that sounds like the same thing everyone else is telling you, but I guess its kind of true. You just don't know whats going to happen. In your life you will meet heaps of people. 16 is young. Once you are an adult you will have more opportunities to meet people. But if you would like to meet someone, I would suggest getting involved in interest groups. this will maximise your chances. Don;'t feel bad. Some people stay virgins for much longer! When I was your age, i was wondering the same thing. Hope that helped. All the best.
