OK, so I've been seeing this barefoot hiking, moe. dog, Johnny Depp look-alike for a few weeks now. It has gotten to the point where I think we need to talk about "us". I'm nervous, I'm scared, I'm freaked out, I feel like a teenager, all flustered... But it has to be done. Cuz I feel like I might explode if I don't talk to him about it. It's gonna be done either tonight or tomorrow... I need some comforting words, I need a pep talk, I need someone to tell me it'll be alright... Cuz, as of right now...I'm not ALRIGHT!!!
Then... talk about it. If he looks like Johnny Depp I'd just bone 'im. Constantly. There wouldn't be any time for talking. We'd have to do it during sex. Ahem. Perhaps I'm a little uh, flustered myself.
Well you are a woman, haven't you sensed what he is thinking about you? Is he interested in a relationship? Is he looking for something less? It is my belief that women know everything that you are thinking about them. Confessions are pointless.
I think what you need to think about is what you want "us" to be. Do you want a serious relationship with him? Or just a summertime fling? Once you come to terms with yourself and what you want, i think talking to him about "us" will come much easier. Alex
This is an older guy with a kid, right? If you've only been seeing him a few weeks, he may think you're moving a little fast. And are you a good match given the age difference etc.? Maybe you are, it just has to be asked. These relationships can be great even if they're not serious or long-lasting though. Good luck!!!
He's 25...I'm 22. He's got a three year old... I did it...it went nowhere...I still don't really have an answer... Weird...
I'm sorry Annie. I don't have any words of wisdom, but I'll send some good vibes up to Michigan for you. P.S. I could look at your avitar for hours
my senses are if the conversation went nowhere then thats prolly where he's leaning in teh relationship right now. that doesnt mean in the future he wont want a long lasting relationship but he may jsut wanna take it easy for now
Sheesh. I wish I knew SOME things a guy was thinking about me, let alone everything. If that was the case I might not be single. I am always so clueless when it comes to guys and how they see/feel about me. Confessions are never pointless even if she did know. Confirmation when it comes to matters of the heart can only help out. Besides, if a guy told a girl some of his more "cute and silly" thoughts then it'd prolly get really hot in the bedroom. At least, that's my view on it. *sighs* I think I'll always be a closet romantic.
