nah - he's saying that his women is quiet, and he wants to make her SCREAM!!! stand on her toes. trust me, it works!
1. Ask her. At least ask her to show you which spots are best for her & to tell you when you do something good as well as when what you're doing is not working for her. 2. Realize that not all women are as vocal as your roommate's girlfriend. Some scream, some moan, some quietly gasp, whatever.... Your gf may never make the noise his gf does, no matter how amazing the sex.
dude your quote and whole scenario is from friends. when chandler started dating joey's ex-girlfriend and monica did the whole chart thing LOL!
every woman is different. you'll have to ask her. sorry man. or go buy Sex For Dummies or something...... (hahaha another Friends thing ) there are no hard and fast rules, but no doubt there are common things that alot of gals like. do you have any trusted female friends you could ask about it? ummmm.....i still like the Sex For Dummies idea though. its discreet and all. but be thankful that you're good to start with, at least your not trying to go from crap to "unbelieveable" hahaha