Older men..

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by sara_rose, Jul 3, 2005.

  1. sensamelia

    sensamelia hippy mom

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    i agree with you linda when your a teenager you need to enjoy life and not get bogged down with responsibilities of the older world. im speaking from experience as well. you can still be attracxted to older men without committing fully..........i say be young and enjoy it .........but sara rose ive always been attracted to older men .but i have met some cool younger ones ..it all depends on the maturity of the individual
     
  2. Court_lew_0216

    Court_lew_0216 True Aquarius

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    im attracted to older guys but more like 35 the limit..... idk....... u seem a little young to b dating 40-50 yr olds but age doesnt rly matter
     
  3. toolmaggot

    toolmaggot Nuts Go Here.

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    Well, I'm 15. I'm attracted to plenty of guys, up to around the age of thirty. And old men LOVE me. *shrug* I see age as a number, as long as the two are mentally compatible, and at the same level of mental maturity, I don't see why it can't happen.

    I would like to think that I'm fairly advanced for my age, but who knows. My friends think it's creepy as fuck that I hang out with thirty year olds.. eh well. I don't understand why, it's not even like I do anything sexually with them. I suppose the simple act of chillin' somehow takes on a perverse quality when there's a fifteen year difference.
     
  4. steffan

    steffan puffin

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    when i was 38 i was sometimes dating this freind of mine who was 19, when her friends ask her why, she told them. "because i can" cracked me up
    for the most part guys arnt worth much untill there at least thirty, but at 15 you are a bit young to be 'dating' shouldnt you be out falling in love with some young stud?
     
  5. bikerdude650

    bikerdude650 Member

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    Hey to all, This topic is a tough one. I am a older man who has a girl friend who is 10 years younger than me. She is my life and soulmate. age should not be a factor in love, but at least let both persons be of leagle age..
     
  6. sara_rose

    sara_rose Ice Queen

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    wow, i never thought this thread would get so many replies lol :)
     
  7. kif

    kif Member

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    Age means nothing if you care and love the other person. I prefer older men and I dont give a shit what anybody says.
     
  8. Sirjimalot

    Sirjimalot Member

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    Yeah, I agree... that is just wrong to me...

    I guess the youngest I would date is like 24-25 I am 38
     
  9. kayy

    kayy Member

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    when i was 19 i was engaged w a guy who was 39, we had great sex, but i wasn't at all in love with him, i was unfaithful a couple of times, and i know he really enjoyed showing me up, (to his friends, or just being seen w him). Today i dispise myself for being so cheap, he was more like a friend for me, and a lover of course, but not really a boyfriend. i did experience some good things (he did learn me a couple of things, en bed and in life) so i don't regret staying w him
     
  10. sensamelia

    sensamelia hippy mom

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    yes but biker dude thats ok your 47 and 37 but its a bit different when one is 17 and the elder is 47.
     
  11. sara_rose

    sara_rose Ice Queen

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    i like older men, but i do know my limits.
    i have a date tomorrow with a 25 year old... i'm nervous as hell cause i've never been on a date before. But hopefully it'll go well :)
     
  12. Maggie

    Maggie Member

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    I see you didn't take the advice to wait until you were 18. lol

    Anyways, how did the date go?
     
  13. sara_rose

    sara_rose Ice Queen

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    oh god.. don't remind me..

    you can officially call me a slut... damn, i should've known this was gonna happen.
    anyway, it's over and done with so now i'm just gonna try to forget about it...
     
  14. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    I like older men. I could never be sexualy attracted to somone my own age
     
  15. Raving Sultan

    Raving Sultan Banned

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    When I was 21, I dated this 36 year old lady. It was great. She liked to buy me stuff and always wanted me to bang her. She might have been using me for my penis now that I think about it. OMFG!!!!!
    True story
     
  16. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    heheh. I must admit i've had a few sugar daddies in the past but that wasn't the goal but it's a huge turn on none the less but it never lasts.
     
  17. luna kp

    luna kp Guest

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    hey sara.
    i'm a newbe here, but i feel the same way you do , although i'm more into 20-30 than to 40-50.
    the posts were very useful to me too.
    and about your messed up date; i think you sound too harsh. don't be so judgmental upon yourself, regardless of the mistakes you might have made it doesn't make you a slut or whatsoever. ^^
     
  18. IronGoth

    IronGoth Newbie

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    Um Sara were you taken advantage of by a much older man?
    Shouldn't you inform someone about this?
     
  19. lovelightlisa

    lovelightlisa Senior Member

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    woooohoooo! my first boyfriend was 31...i was 14! hail old guys!
    this here is the hottest thing ever: robyn hitchcock...
    [my sig]
     
  20. IronGoth

    IronGoth Newbie

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    Lovelightlisa: though many here are pederasts, I am not. That was NOT a good thing.
     

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