Some like it rough

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Maineman1982, Aug 23, 2005.

  1. Maineman1982

    Maineman1982 Member

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    a gilr I used to date was really into rough sex...toys ect she would get really kinky (i liked it but cant get it now) Do alot of girls really like being rough in bed, or had i found a diamond in the rough. My current GF doen nothing in bed, but she may be a needle in a haystack too.

    Just curious if rougher and wilder is really better
     
  2. Bella_Donna

    Bella_Donna *Femme Fatale*

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    Personally, I love rough sex. It's my preference. On special occasions, the slow, soft love making thing can work for me, but in general, I want it hot and hard. I think it's a silly misconception that all women are into the softer stuff, but I can hardly speak for all womankind.
     
  3. Maineman1982

    Maineman1982 Member

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    you should call her and tell her that, let her know its a good thing...im kidding, thatnks for the feedback
     
  4. PurpleGel

    PurpleGel Senior Member

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    with a name like bella donna it's no surprise you like it hard and fast.
     
  5. Lainey

    Lainey Member

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    every girl is different, its more like a salad than a haystack
     
  6. shadowd_dreamr

    shadowd_dreamr Senior Member

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    Some girls like it rough, and some like is passionate..
    I like a mixture of both.. ;).
    so you got to figure out what your girl is into,
    and try to make it fun for you too.
     
  7. Weeble

    Weeble Member

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    Eh. I like it rough. I like it usually an even 50/50. I believe that kinky sex is what keeps the relationship alive while slow and gentle keeps the love alive. It takes both to suceed.

    I guess that's why I feel I can't settle down. I want someone who is into what I'm into so there won't be those moments of "I wish.." Those animal desires need to be rested somehow; and if they can't, it'll either not last or you will be miserable. We all know there are exceptions to the rule but for the most part it's the likely hood.

    That's just how I see it.
     
  8. sweetval

    sweetval Member

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    I'm not sure what you mean by "rough"

    I love getting spanked so hard I can't sit for a week, but I don't like being slapped or having my hair pulled or anything like that.

    I like a guy to work up to things first and then when I'm ready I want to be fucked hard and deep. I like being taken anally, and once gotten in the mood, being ridden hard that way too.

    I wouldn't want to be fisted though.

    So I guess it depend what you mean by rough sex.
     
  9. Weeble

    Weeble Member

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    sweetval made me think of this.

    There is a such thing as too rough (although I doubt you are as extreme). A guy I was seeing wanted my to really dominate him. Have him be my sex slave 24/7 and force him to do things by punishing him and humiliating him. He wanted me to slap his balls a lot, tie em up. step on them, kick them... yeah.. um.. I couldn't do it.

    but generally rough and physically aggressive sex is hot.
     
  10. peacelovebarefeet

    peacelovebarefeet BuRniN oNe...

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    i <333 roughness...

    spanking, slapping, pulling hair, choking, fisting, fucking hard...

    its all fair game, you know!
     
  11. toolmaggot

    toolmaggot Nuts Go Here.

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    The rougher the better.

    If it looks like I got the shit beaten out of me afterwards, then it was good sex.
     
  12. Soulless||Chaos

    Soulless||Chaos SelfInducedExistence

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    You people scare me. :eek:
     
  13. i_love_sex

    i_love_sex Member

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    i like it rough
     
  14. DirtyVibe

    DirtyVibe Member

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    I like it hard and deep.
     
  15. Prince Astaroth

    Prince Astaroth Member

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    I like a mix of rough and passionate. I don't like when it's so rough that it seems like the people are just plain perverted and super horny like they don't care about each other. You know, most people nowadays with all of their casual sex/one night stand stuff, and so on. In fact, that stuff just disgusts me personally.
     
  16. James

    James Member

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    yea my ex girlfriend and i had rough kinky sex...theyre out there guy...dont loose hope
     
  17. tigerlily

    tigerlily proud mama

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    i like a mixture.. sometimes pretty rough (but not fist me or punch me rough... slapping is okay) but other times i want it slow and romantic... most of the time i want something in the middle, kinky but not too rough. and for there always to be a connection emotionally....

    so i'd say there are plenty of women who like it rough... but maybe moderation is more common than either of the extremes
     
  18. maybejusthappy

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    I like it rough and I have scars to prove it!!!!
     

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