Oh boy....Heres my situation. A friend of mine who i used to fool around with alot wants to do it again with me, but I have a girl friend now who I dont want to cheat on. Im attracted to my girl friend, but im really attracted to my friend. she calls me up and tells me things that i dont want to turn down, but I know I should turn them down because I'd be upset with myself, and my gf would be upset. Im not as satasfied sexually with my current girl friend, and I know i would be with my friend. I keep thinking back to the quote in the movie Clerks that silent bob says, "theres a million fine looking women out there, but not all of them bring you lasagana at work". And its true, my gf is really good to me. I feel shitty for even considering it. My decision is to stick with my gf, and maybe bring up to her ways that i'd be more satasfied.
i dont know about cheat on her, maybe tell her you need time? if shes cool she'll understdn... but not many girls are liek that
Good For You, Jonee...Sounds Like You're Doing The Right Thing : ) A Few Moments Of Satisfaction In Your Situation Would Likely Be Replaced With Pain, Guilt And Mistrust When All Was Done And Said. : )
dont cheat.. see above. ^^ just talk to her, tell her you need sex.. if she doesnt respond well, then go on a "break"
give specifics though, don't just be like "you're not satisfying me because you suck". Tell her exactly what you enjoy, what your needs are. Ask her if she's ok with an open/polyamorous relationship. If not, don't go outside that unless you aren't dating her anymore.
Don't be a dumbass, if your girlfriend is loyal and treats you like that, fuck that other girl for even asking you to postion yourself knowing you are in a relationship, if she does know shes a piece of shit
