Break-ups, pregnancy and having sex again.

My fiance of 3 years and I just broke up a few months ago. Not a good situation. So I have distanced myself from him only talking to him when I absolutely have to and when he comes to the doctors appointments. He is actually excited about the baby, but I cant trust him now. So there is no future for us.

Im 4 1/2 months pregnant and my hormones are going wild! Ive sort of been seeing this guy and we are very sexually attracted to one another. Is there anything wrong with me having some fun and getting in bed with him? If he checks out clean of course. But sometimes I feel guilty, that I would be putting myself and my baby in danger. And at the same time I feel I deserve some fun and if Im smart about it, I will do the right thing.

Look, no vibe can simulate the presence of a man. And dammit I need some! But should I be so concerned or feel guilty?

 

I don't think you should feel guilty at all. Just have safe sex. If thats not an option for you for whatever reasons... you will be screened for any STD's (or should be and can ask to be) during pregnancy which can then be treated before you give birth.


And congratualtions! Have a happy and healthy 9 months!

 

you should'nt feel guilty, this is your body, your choice to fool around with whome ever you want.. if you like this guy then go for it..

 

It's not dangerous for the baby if you at least protect yourself against STDs. You can have sex all the way up until your water breaks unless you are having a difficult pregnancy. A doctor would tell you not to have sex in these cases.

 

i hope you have a well-paying job.

 

i hope have love... love is all you need

 

yeah, if you're an alchemist and can turn love into water and food....