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my dad used to be an abusive, asshole drug addict. he made mom and my life miserable, until he left altogether when i was about 8. i didn't see him again until i was 18.i used to hate him.

we sort of have a relationship now, and my feelings about him are very complicated. i don't hate him anymore, but i feel very ambivelant (probably spelled that wrong) about our relationship.

 

he was super violent with my mom when they were married. He is a developer and makes a good living but never paid child support. My mom is suing him for child support now and he called her greedy. She could have sued him for 3 times as much but did not want to really hurt his current family financialy. He is such a dick. I feel like letting Dan beat the shit out of him. I wish I would have physically fought him off. I may have gotten hurt but it would have been better than what happened.

 

My dad is a great person, probably one of the nicest people I've known. He will do anything to help anyone in need. Apparantly, I take after my mom much more, personality-wise.

However, my dad can really annoy me if I spend too much time around him. His way of thinking is much different than mine, but he has always been there to support me. Both my parents have.

 

I hate me father passionatly.

He's a bloody abusive alcoholic... who hasn't worked a single day in his life...

Me and my mother just left him about 2 months ago...I have never felt more relieved.

 

My dad is a great person - he's very intelligent and definitely willing to share his advice to me. But at times, he annoys the hell outta me, and (unfortunately) I don't have the world's greatest relationship with him.

 

Now let me tell you my story ok, my dad was never there when i was a kid but for some reason i was a daddy's girl. he always stayed gone he never bought me and my brother anything it was always my mom. then they finally got a divorece and we stayed with our grandpartents, he would come and see me every now and then i would cry when he left, and it would not phase him at all he chose his girl freinds and her kids over me and my brother i have not seen him in about 7 years and could careless bout the sorry fucker he dont even know my birthday... and know he got kids of his own and he dont care bout his first born fucked up right.... my brother has a kid and my sperm donantor dont evn know what he is or looks like i dont call him dad i call him sperm donantor because thats what he is.... Now i can not trust no guys i started having sex at a young age out for some guys attention wrong yes i know but its all his fault if i could say one thing to him is I FUCKIN HATE HIS GUTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!