Okay the deal is i live in Saint Louis missouri. I go to my relatives down in Essex missouri. I ended up meeting the greatest guy ever. And im on supervised probation. Long Story. And my school is starting up again so i had to come home. I cry every night cause i miss the guy. I seen him and talked to him for like 2 months strait. Now it will be a while until i see him again. My heart feels torn apart. And im scared im the only one who feels this way. And i dont want anyone taking him from me. Any suggestions???? peace love and water
First of all, you need to let him know how you feel. That is the number one thing you have got to do. That way you know whether to continue persuing him, or to move on with your life. The way it sounds is you had a bit of a relationship with him before you returned home, so do you have any clue if he reciprocates any feelings? If he responds well, you guys need to discuss what needs to happen. How old are you both? Do you think you could withstand a long distance relationship? If so, then go for it. But you might want to make sure you trust him before you establish any sort of relationship because long distance relationships require a great deal more of trust than a close distance relationship. Make sure to let him know how you feel. That's the most important part. If he doesn't know, he might move on to another. Remember, love will find a way, but if you don't do something to aid it, it will be very difficult.
yeah, you make a lot of sense. i have talked to him. he says he isnt totally sure how he feels right now. oh and im 17 and hes 27. i know i know. big age difference. but love you cant just up and quit it. im in a deep gap. i might be moving back down there. but it wont be until december. if hes willing to wait. so am i.
but if he's not sure how he's feeling, you really shouldn't be putting much stock into any sort of relationship with him. Usually, something said like that really mean, "I don't want to be in a relationship with you, but I don't want to hurt you." Just my two cents. Oh crap...this is Holly, btw...Not Brian...:& sorry for doing this again
