i need to throw up

You're a 15 year old boy--you're not god. You have no right to say who is worthy of giving advice and who isn't. I'm not either. Neither of us are experienced enough to be able to judge anyones abilities, including the "ability" to give advice. I apologize if you think you're too good/different/depressed/angst-riddled to listen to advice that others have found helpful, but that doesn't mean that you have the right to "eish" at advice (or, in the case of eating disorders, scare tactics based on experiences of others. It's one thing for an eating disordered person to read what COULD happen, but when they hear that it DID happen to someone, it brings it to a different level) that others may find helpful.

 

Your "facts" don't necessarily mean that my opinions aren't also feasible.

And yes I am a guy, congratulations sherlock. I'm sure all of your high school educations have provided you with much knowledge.

-Litos

 

No, high school doesn't teach you about eating disorders. Atleast not mine anyway. That could be because I took health online, though.

Anyway, don't put my facts in quotes. I'm all for opinions, but when you're opinions are based on misconceptions and ignorance, they just become wrong. Eating disorders are a series of symptoms stemming from a further embedded psychological malfunction.

 

Just because I believe something other than you doesn't mean that my experiences are wrong. I my self came across some people with these exact problems, and I just happened to be right when describing them. So if you want to try and prove me wrong, go ahead, I won't buy it no matter how hard you try. You do have valid points, mine are just from a different line of thought. Realize that. Having different expriences is not ignorance, its just a different experience/line of thinking. Quit harassing me for what I believe jackass.

-Litos

 

How do you know that you described them correctly? Were you the one with the problems? No.

Ignorance.

It was rather jackassish of you to say that eating disorders are caused by laziness.

You're a very disturbed individual...

 

I'm tired of arguing with idiots.

Eating disorders can be caused by laziness, I never said all, or intended to.

Jus because my experiences differ from yours does not make me ignorant. I have my perspective and ways to get at things you have yours. If you want to be a dick thats your perogative. At least I know my friends that have had it I've helped in my own way.

-Litos

Besides the important thing is that we got through to her about it and convinced her to exercise it off. Why do you feel the need to argue with me anyways?

 

I didn’t really... the title's called "to only name few consequences of bulimia".




If you’re vomiting as something part of your daily life, I understand it exchanges the feeling of that guilt otherwise you wouldn’t vomit to make the guilt go away. Exchange the “need” of vomiting with another activity, something else that is more of a "need" and make you rather chose it then the vomiting.
You dodn't want to destoy your youth man!

 

you should use smaller text next time

 

you know its just not that easy to be like o yea i will stop this right now..because once you start doing it it fucks with your mind...and i know i have been doin better but the thought will always be there..i did not start this because i waz lazy..it wAZ becasue im sick of the way things work out..like goin out with friends and people always look at them..i mean i am a funny person but they just didnt see that..i want to be like and loved for who i am and what i stand for..maybe if i waz a few pounds lighter people will be like o shes pretty maybe i will go over and talk to her..i have no problem making friends or hangin out with people..but it gets to me that im 18 and may never have a boyfriend or just some one that will be there and put up with my bullshit..im sick of sittin home on the weekends with out any one there who understands..this year has totally sucked..my friends i hardly talk to anymore..they have changed and i guess i have to..when i think about not havin any one there it kills me...what happend to me i use to be friends with everyone and not care what anyone thinks..now look at me im a loser..im graduating in 20 somethin days and i have nothin to look back on...no friends to be by my side...no one to be like o you wanna go do somethin..most people dont wanna let me try...i havent done it in a couple days and im proud but i do think about it still and i always will..i do have a problem and i am gonna try to handle it..i went from and 18 to about a 13-14 11-12 which is still big but it doesnt matter..yea it matters that i wont be with anyone but i guess i just have to wait and see..they say everyone has a soul mate but obviously i do not..you can think what you want that im lyin to you or whatever but im not im tellin you straight out this is the way it is..i dont want it to be but..when my best friend stopped hangin out with me..i thought what the hell did i do wrong but then again it happend for the best..she treated me like shit..and i will not let any one i mean anymore fuck me over or treat me like shit..cause fat or not fat im gonna be some one someday and when i am people will see the real me
im not gonna be a loser anymore..

you guys really do help though and if i could i would do anythin to prove it...

thanks

 

whooa havent written here in a while..im doing sooo good..not losing alot a weight as fast but i am losing it..it takes time..whoo hoo im excited..but i still dont have a bf and that makes me sad..i really want some one to be there for me..but as of now im still alone any suggestions on how to get a man?

 

Hey, First of all, you gotta be patient. You got to be happy with yourself and confident. Then you will automatically be more attractive (has nothing to do with looks).


If you are that "obsessed" with having a boyfriend, then you are not quite ready for one, in my opinion. I think in general many guys are turned off by the "needy" personality. Try to think less selfish about why YOU need someone and more about what you can OFFER to someone in a relationship

You can actually have a lot of fun and friends and enjoy life without a boyfriend, then, someday, when you least expect you will find your soulmate! So get out and enjoy the things you like to do. That is the best way to meet people your type anyway.

That is good that you decided to lose weight the right way by eating appropriately and exercising. It is not easy and takes great diligence and self-discipline, but is the only healthy way to go. Anyway you get a good euphoric rush after a good workout if you're anything like me!

Oh, and I read a few posts back that you think no one likes to talk to girls who are overweight. I don't agree. At least I;m not like that. In fact I am the exact opposite. I would be more hesitant to approach someone that just looks like Barbie and gives the impression of being shallow and materialistic.

Try not to be so down on your self. I guarentee, whether you think it or not people value you for who you are and cherish you as their friend.

Remember, be patient and work on becomming comfortable and happy with who you are. That will be the best and most efficient investment towards finding a future soulmate.

 

is that you? in the picture

 

Yep, thats me at Bonnaroo 2005

 

omg i waz gonna go to that...where are you from

 

Well, Nashville currently, but originally PA then OH for a while. It was a blast but not as laid back (mostly due to the additudes of my friends this time) as roo 2004. Cant wait till next year (I heard that would be the last of Bonnaroo as we know it )

 

Ya know....I've never been able to make myself throw up..
I don't think I'd want to, either..
It's probably harder to just not eat....
but purging screws up your teeth , throat, esophagus..and stuff..

 

im doing good.....i like the way i am and the complements that i have been getting...i guess i needed to realize to love myself and not worry about what other people think..for me to be beautiful i have to realize that its on the inside..and for me to appeal to other people i need to worry about being healthy....even though i dont have a boyfriend and that is what i wanted im just gonna have to wait im gonna stop trying to look until someone finds me and the time is right..before i guess i waz being too desperate and usually when trying to find a boyfriend being desperate doesnt help..i was so eager to find someone to love me instead of me loving my self first..i have grown alot and it has made me a happier person...i really do thank you guys so much for helping me realize and with the help of other people and their concerns for my health it feels so good to have support from people
thanks again

 

AWESOME! Keep on keepin on...


Sometimes I have so much fun doing my own thing and being independantly spontaneous that I wonder how I would fit a "girlfriend" into my lifestyle.

However, I think the "one" for me would just naturally fit right in and maybe even make things better. I'll just be patiently having some fun for now.

 

bad news...i have been really depressed over the past couple days and i have sorta resorded to my old ways... o dios mio