Ok, so i have been in a relationship that is hard to explain, we broke up, but lately we have been "together" basically everything has been the same as when we were dating, we go everywhere together,holdhands, sex, he even calls me his girlfriend when people ask who i am. well... today my brother asked me if we were dating again, and i said i dont know, and he told me that he told this guys friend that he thought we were dating again, and his friend said "oh really, well that makes 2 then, i thought he was dating some girl who lives like an hr away, but i wouldnt put it past him".... so now im pissed and want to call him on it, but my bro said he was going to ask more in depth about this to his friend and not to say anything until he finds out more tonight. \what i want to know is, if for some reason he does not find out anything else, is this comment from the guy im "dating"'s friend enough evidence for me to believe i am being played? im just really confused right now, and know he wont tell me the truth if i ask him about another girl. so i need good evidence to not feel like an idiot. what do i do kids?
whether you are being played or not you set your dude up to be able to do shit like that. you said it yourself, you broke up. but you guys do everything a couple does, nothing has changed so it seems, but he is not your boyfriend. say he is with another girl...all he's gonna say to you if he actually admits it is hey chick, we broke up. it's gonna make you feel like shit if that happens but dudes are like that. you guys did break up, he's not commited to you so he can do what he wants. if i were you i would find out a little more from your bro even though i don't always agree with that bc it's like that phone game. words can change around so much until they get to you and you could have a completely wrong story. if you feel the need to call him on it, which if you guys are acting like a couple i think you should, just say i heard this and see what he says. go from there. if he says yes then you should be done with it bc he's with another girl. if he says no then i think you should find out where you two stand exactly. tell him that you guys act like you're still together and discuss the status of your relationship. when you two are on the same page it will make life a lot easier and you can move on better.
i knew i was setting myself up for it, thats why when we started being more than friendly i had a long talk with him about where we stand, he said he couldnt have a girlfriend because of all the stressfrom school and work, but if he had one it owuld be me, and we both agreed that we would not see other people because thats not why we split. I made sure i heard that from him even though it didnt mean it wont happen. and the reason he gave me for breaking up i feel was a pretty poor one as well.
