So i've been lurking around this forum for some time, but this is my first time posting here. People here seem to be pretty chill and helpful, so i thought i might toss a question out to you all. Really stupid question, I know, but was just wondering, what do you gals do to show your guy you're in the mood to get down and dirty? And for you guys, what do you prefer your lady do to show you she's in the mood? Short of just grabbing my boy's balls, I feel like all my signals lately are going unnoticed, or just plain ignored, and I'm starting to wonder if there's something going on, a reason why he doesn't want to have sex more. And I know that it's not a lack of libido. I know I should probably just ask him about it, but I feel a little embarrased asking him why he doesn't really seem to want to have sex with me that often. It makes me wonder if he's not really that into me anymore, or if I am not making enough of an attempt to show him how badly I want him (though I've never had to make much of an attempt, guys have usually wanted it like all the time ) Any help, thoughts, suggestions? Thanks a lot!
ok one thing I'm not sure whats wrong with him because I believe every guy out their loves sex and as for the girl advice just give him that look that lets him know you want to get down and dirty. Also tell him about how you feel. Truth usually works in this matter and if you just be yourself and show you do want to and maybe even tell him he should be into more and consider that you let him know you wanted too. Either way it should if not though take him to a bar or some party and get him really drunk and in a great mood and then take him home and do what you do. LOL!!! Ever see that movie : Along Came Polly ? Well if you did rember the part when they got home from that salsa dance place try that. Now I'm not no expert but I have tryed this a few times in my past 2 - 3 years in a great relationship. So hope I helped later.
how do u not show him......push him against a wall, put a finger in your mouth, accidentally drop something right in front of him and bend over to get it while planting your goods promptly. Its all in the body lang. youl do just fine.
and what's wrong with that method? fellas, would any of you object to the direct method? I think not. the important thing to realize, is that men are stupid. seriously, rocks make fun of us. and not the smart rocks, even the really dumb rocks laugh at us. subtle hints don't work.
Take your pants off and start masturbating in front of him. If he doesn't get the hint then he's a fucking moron. Another fun thing to do is just straddle him and hump his leg.
right on, thanks for the suggestions folks! I thought welcoming him to bed yesterday wearing only lace undies would have been SOME sort of clue:H . But I'll be more direct next time. We're going on vacation tonight, so let sexy time begin! haha, thanks for that trotsky, too funny!
well.... ((gets evil thoughts)) say he is sitting on a chair or on a couch... strattle him and start nibbling on his ears, suck his neck, wisper dirty things into his ear, feel your breasts, take off your shirt, undo his pants... maybe give him a lap dance, strip, take off your pants, and bend over ((bum in his face)) show off your goods... common if he hadnt jumped up and torn off his pants by now, i think he's got some bigger issues....
It's pretty easy for a girl, just be assertive, I guess. Undress in front of him, or undress him... that should work on any guy.
wait till hes sitting on a couch watching tv(sumthin shity so he doesnt get grumpy) sit on his lap so your facing him and put your arms around his neck tell him u love him, kiss, grind, and go fuck. i just think that would be cool. mab hes just ina funk.
RE: Be assertive if he doesn't respond to that then you know something is trully up. Or ISN'T, as the case may be. Guys aren't girls. Whereas most women would be repulsed by a guy just whipping it out, aiming it at her and saying "it would be a good idea to take your clothes off now" most guys pretty much have to be shown that kind of signal and frankly appreciate it. And hey, in this legal climate..... I practically want a contract to sign.
That'll work too. If not then be a bit more forceful like have some hand lotion ready and when he comes in the door, get his pants off and then put some lotion on your hands and jerk him off. Tell him you want to drink his cum. (If it's true) Guys like that. It seems like love that he can somehow understand. Don't misunderstand a guy if he just came home from work not being in the mood though. Work often is very emasculating, or even just basically stressful and exhausting. Maybe score some X if it's been really too long and he seems lost to you. If nothing else works, cold cock him on the side of the head with a brick, and then fuck him when he's unconscious. He should understand that. .
ok i dont see the big deal.. all my girl has to do is start kissing me deeply and making out.. and then touch the back of my head.. BANG!!... OK I KNOW WHAT WERE GONNA DO NOW!!!... atleast thats how i think
