Now im sure its been mentioned in the past, but Im new here and where else better to learn the sexuality of stoners like myself than here. Anyways...... Ive talked to many women in the past about having crazy,hot sex and desires, but for some reason when women talk about fucking my brains dry a dulled sensation of bullshit rings throgh my ears. Do all women talk twice as much crap as they can carry or do some of you out there actually contain the sexual creativity to achive desires. If so how would you ladies describe fucking advaced fornicators.
Well, when I was your age, I was a shit talker. In reality I didn't really wanna do much to my partner, I just wanted to be pleased. Then I came to the realization that most men just aren't very good in bed. If I wanna have a real good time I must have sex by myself. When Im with a guy, well its just kind of boring. But yeah, alot of us just talk shit to see if you really are the shit. Then after a few years we realize that the only real shit is our vibrators.
what a shame yellow. No woman should ever have to say that. I wish just once that you could recieve the worhip and pleasure that Woman deserves, a Man is nothing without pleasuring the Divine Feminine.
huh! Could you give a more specific example. It takes more than her sexual creativity to achive desires, you have a big part in it too. Young men are shit talkers too you know, sure the dialog is different but the shit talk is still there. Besides, I would just chalk it up to the age, young people just want to appear older, more worldly and experienced than they really are.
I'm only 23 and I don't bullshit anyone. I think I might be one of the few exceptions to the rule because I'm brutally honest. My mom says I'm too honest and should learn to use tact *shrugs*. My only issue is that the guys I have been with weren't very open minded or the relationship didn't get to that level of comfort and trust. I've never been able to test my limits. When it comes to what is inside my head, I'm a total pervert. I just wouldn't do some of them with just any relationship. It takes certain kinds of people.
you all mistake the shit talkers. Im a very open minded person, but I dont talk shit I can't bring. I came to this forum for advise not to be critisized by people offended by my picture. get over it you fuckin babies. I just want some ladies out there to tell me what holds them back in bed when I know they got some freak under the sheets. Ladies.......................why do you hold back?
Some women could be doing so for numerous reasons.. Some women don't feel totally comfortable with their bodies, some women who have been in shitty past relationships (emotional abuse and what not), some women are a little afraid to try different things and loosen up.. I think it's how comfortable you are with yourself and with your partner.. I mean, if you don't feel good about yourself and the person you're having sex with, well there's a slight possibility it may not be very enjoyable, or at least not what you expected..
Id say im not comfortable with myself, but Im always drinking.........so i always feel good, damn shame right? not really, it helps me to be more honest and open with myself. Most of the relationships I estabish with a girl r usually very open and honest and when women talk to me dirty as a form of forplay they say some things Id rather have them do to me instead, but it never comes out. I figure im to damn rambunk. and controlling or there to involved enjoying to notice my discomfort. what do u think?
Ordazmic... I couldent have said it better my self . adameistervousier... If a girl is a little self conscious, and is confronted sexually, by a really confident guy (which you seem to be).. I think that they would become more shy in the bedroom... Just my opinion though..
well if you are in a relationship with a girl and she is teasing you with dirty thoughts and words, I would just roll with it.. She may not feel confortable doing alot of the acts she whispers in your ear because she may be shy?? I dunno .. always do what I whisper haha .. ((thinks dirty thoughts))... Do you think you are controlling?? maybe that is a turn off?? Do you notice their discomfort ever?
I cant tell you why some girls say shit they wont do, but im tellin ya, its not just the ladies........ Alot of you men are just as bad. . . I figure why say somethin if your not going to follow through, right? I mean stop bein a tease already...... and man.....mmmmm love the pic
i think you should ask the women your fucking why they aren't "crazy", or why they hold back... everyone is different, perhaps they just don't feel comfortable with you.
maybe the words they are saying are erotic to hear and think of, but the reality of what they mean isn't something they're into. i actually have very little personal account of this, and i've always been much more annoyed with the egocentric idiocy of when guys do it. i have quite a few female friends that i've sat around with many times before, and they don't feel the need to compromise whatever honesty and legitimacy that a sexual experience of thiers might have had and make it sound like a game they used and threw away, or anything guys do to glorify themselves because they're insecure about themselves and need to feel like they have something that everyone wants--whether they do or not. i'd say someone who walked around talking like they are some kind social blessing of a sex god/dess from MTV, is just another kid looking to be worshipped for something they haven't earned. as far as talking dirty and not delivering what was promised goes, i dont think i've ever had that experience to any degree that frusterated me enough to remember it--wish i could be more help with that.
tell her you'd like a little less talk and a lot more action, you can do something to get the party started incase she is a little shy and needs you to initiate. Give as you receive, don't expect her to do everything. If you want a freak in the sheets, be one yourself!
