alright, a lot of the people in this particular forum engage in self destructive behaviour, this isn't to try to make you stop (though I'd rather most of you live longish, healthy, productive {whatever a good definition of that is} lives) I want you to know why you all engage in your own self destructive behaviours, What pennance do you pay? I have a vague sort of idea why I've picked my poison, and I know what mine is, at least I think I do no need to post what it is I just want y'all to think about it, because I've been seeing a bit of a rise of posts about self destructive behaviour and it worries me somewhat, most of you people are interesting and without interesting people the world turns tope......
ya, thats very true. I hate hearing people talking about cutting themselves or contimplating suicide. I may mention occasionally that i would like to kill myself, but i could never go through with it... people should cherrish life more, and think of it as the only one they got. Going through life digging your own grave doesnt sound like a good life at all...
Amen to that I have a very serious aversion to death/dying, pain, blood etc (am a vegetarian after all) and my uncle comitted sucide years ago, so know how hard it is for families to cope. It's one of my major peeves when people claim to want to kill themselves. It's just annoying how trivial and egoistical it sounds (there is a world of diffrence between 'cry for help' and 'bad taste bid for attention'). That and it's a serious insult to those who actually have gone through with it and their families. Besides as a rule genuinley depressed/sucidal people don't talk about it. Think about it, if they were that keen they wouldn't risk someone marching in and trying to stop them. Now I know life is not perfectly peachy all the life, but come on if it really is that terrible there are so many oppotunities to get help and improve things. If it's no more terrible than average, well then get some perspective and buck up.
not true. I had depression and I turned to the internet for people to talk to about it, because I couldn't keep everything bottled up inside. I did, however, avoid talking to anyone I knew in real life about it. One friend found out though, and I eventually broke down and told my parents. They had me go to a psychologist, who wasn't very helpful.
I have a friend who is always telliing everyone how much she hates herself & her life. She told me she was seriously thinking of commiting suicide... Few years ago she started hurting herself sometimes. She's a very good friend of mine, but I really can't understand what's happening to her. We spend time together often and she seems to be happy, she's laughing, talking a lot...we're going to the concerts together, having a great time always, smoking weed etc.. but after that she tells me that she wants to die. And btw she's very beautiful, smart, has lots of friends... I really don't know what's happening... Sometimes she's so depressed that I become depressed too. But I think she's not serious about commiting suicide... I don't know...
you people are so full of it. chasing after your bullshit ideas of emotion and life. theres no point living life running from and avoiding the inevitable. one day you may reach a higher level of perception where you will see reality.
No. Truly intelligent people control reality by subjective perception. This allows the obliteration of meaning in objective value, and thus, reality exists only so much as is perceived.
self destructive behavior brings relief to many that engage in it. the pros outweigh the cons to them.
I'd quote the subjective perception thing too, but you aren't worth it you're an idiot, to think that your perception of the world matters is folly, thus making you a fool, it's that mass delusion that is the reason that people are okay with buying from wal mart even knowing that they fund human rights violations, you're only worse because you know you do it, lying to oneself about the world is stupid you should kill yourself, then you'd percieve nothing, right, bet you're an athiest no religion, no where when we die sort too......
