Please Read This And Help Me.

Ok I need some major help. I made a mistake. Me and my boyfriend of a lil over a month went to a party together. We both ended up getting drunk, then we came to my house. We started to fool around then in the heat of the moment, I said something like how it would feel for him to be inside of me, and before you know it, without a condom, we're having sex. About 5 to 10 seconds before his orgasm, he pulls out, then the gentlement goes all over my tee-shirt (the least of my worries.)
My first problem, is that, even after three days of penetration, Im still bleeding. My friends say Im on my period, what do you think? He was roughly 6 to 7 inches and in thickness...|______________| around there. Is it natural for it to last this long, or am I on my period? And if I am on my period, does that insure Im not pregnant?
On the 5th day after we had sex, Im going to the local health nurse for Birth Control and a "Morning After Pill". Now.. this means I need advice on how to approch my parents on my sexually-active.. ermm.. hobbies. lol. How did you talk to your parents about getting birth control? For all the mothers out there, how would YOU want your children to address this?

I thank everyone SO MUCH in advance for helping me out, Im goin to check out how this Post is going as often as I can, I need help quick guys!!!

 

Don't wait 5 days, the morning after pill needs to be taken within like 48 hours. You can still get pregnant even if you are on your period. If your not on your period, then your in a lot of trouble. You just tell your parents had sex without thinking because you were so drunk.

Most parents would want their children to tell them, rather than keep it a secret. They will find out eventully, if anything bad happens.

 

The thing about the Morning After Pill, is that tomorrow is New Brunswick Day, a holiday here and none of the Health Offices are open. Tuesday is the nearest day for me to do so, and thats day 5.

 

Then its too late. It has to be taken right away.

 

How should I approch my parents about sex and what about the bleeding?

 

Do you guys have a planned parent hood up there?

look one up, they'll take care of you and won't tell your parents

 

Actually, visited that site and called the hotline, but there isnt one near me

 

First, relax Take a nice slow breath.

Have you ever had your period before? If so, is this your time typically?

I realize that was the first time you ever had sex, but was it your first time having something penetrate you? I mean, did he break your hyman, or did you already "pop yer cherry" beforehand?

There's a lot of stuff that it could be. If ya'll was drunk, maybe he was playing a little rough and scratched ya inside. Does it hurt at all, or is it just blood?

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On the topic of parents -- it really depends on what kind of folks you got. For me, my parents are WAY too religious for me to talk about sex with. The second I mention intercourse my mother starts mumbling the "Hail Mary" and making the sign of the cross at me. ::shrug::

But if you do have chill parents, I'm sure they'd rather you be honest and upfront with them about this kind of stuff.

 

Breathing.. lol.. Good idea
Yea it was my first time, and yea, that cherry was popped lol.
I think I could talk to my mom, its just Protective Daddy, you know?

 

I am not a doctor, but I seriously doubt you're pregnant. If your cherry was popped, it's no uncommon to have "spotting" (light bleeding) for a few days after. But I would keep an eye out, if it continues for awhile, or is heavy -- and it's not your period -- you should certainly get it checked out by a doctor.

Having unprotected sex is pretty irresponsible, but everyone makes mistakes. If you are going to continue to have sex, I'd certainly advise getting some condoms, or going on the pill. The whole "pull & pray" method is really no good as the penis starts secreting "pre-cum" well before the male has ejaculated/climaxed.

Yea, I know how daddies can be when it comes to their lil'girls If you have a mom who's willing to listen and be there for you, I don't see any reason not to let her know what's going on.

Best of luck to you!

 

what Goo said

In all honesty, I didn't tell my mom for a few months after I became sexually active. But I was already on the pill (for safety and regulating my period). My dad, I've never bothered to talk to him about it. It's my life, not theirs, so as long as they know I'm being safe with myself they can just butt out of my sex life

What kind of blood? Menstrual blood is kindof, for lack of a better term, mucous-y. Not as liquid as regular blood, much thicker and kindof sticky. If it's regular blood, I'd make an appointment with your doc or go to a walkin clinic to make sure you're ok. If it's just menstruation, it's just menstruation. Which doesn't mean you not pregnant, because some women can menstruate while pregnant.


Get some condoms. Get the pill/patch/shot/iud/ring/WHATEVER to keep yourself protected. condomless sex means you can still get STD's too, so USE condoms! Always have one in your wallet/purse and make sure he has one too, to be safe.

 

Two words - Coat hanger.

 

Couldn't agree more, if yer got a mom with a good ear, use it. tis a valuable commodity

 

that was really gross and uncalled for

 

huh? lol

And yea.. In a few days my clinic opens and Im in there. Does anyone know the statistic for the possibility of bein pregnant after the "pull-out" method goes into practice?
Im telling my mom to put me on the pill because "You never know whats gonna happen" and thats very true, I didn't plan to lose my virginity the other night lol, or I would've been a bit more prepared. And then hey, maybe mom will be happier, knowing Im safe..

 

You can take a pregnancy test in 2 weeks.

 

That is a very helpful comment...

 

good luck!

 

without the pull out method if you have sex for a year the chnaces of you being pregnant is 91 percent. with the pullout method that percentage is greatly reduced but still not fool proof. chances are rather slim that you're pregnant, anmd very very very slim that you're pregnant if thats menstual blood you're bleeding

 

Oh, chillax, it's called comic relief.