I love you.

But given that the feelings are mutual, wouldn't it be the easiest thing to say? To me it is because it's something that I have a very clear idea on.

 

if those feelings are clearly mutual there shouldn't be a problem

 

Saying it too early would be a bad idea, but I have no problem saying it when I mean it, and when I mean it I know that the other person feels the same.

 

You just sounded like my sister(not a real one, though) for a split second there, lol. Just how you worded it... Hmm, that's interesting.

 

Fear of rejection is what makes it harder to tell someone you love them. But, if there's one thing I have discovered it's that you have to take advantage of making it happen while you can. If you are asking yourself why you don't want to say "I Love You" to someone, it is either because you are so into them you know it would hurt you if you were rejected, OR you really aren't sure if what you feel is love. But know that the fact that you are asking yourself that means you take it seriously, unlike those that hurl it around... after all it is just another word right? You're afraid of the feelings not the word.

 

Yesterday it was a first time I said "I love you" to my boyfriend I wait a long time before I say this,I must be sure I really feel this.