I'll never get along with my parents

They've always been horrible too me. I'm all fucked up and depressed and have low self esteem cuz of the shit they put me through all my life, and they blame it on me. I remember if I messed up or did something that wasn't perfect in their eyes my dad would call my a worthless dumbass and talk about how his friend's kids are smarter. And my mom would just stand there and not do anything. All my life, they would demene(sp?) me and make me feel like trash, because I wasn't skinny or popular. I'm 17, and they still treat me like crap. My dad always talks about how he can't wait till i leave so he doesn't have to see me. I also hate having them around, because they just irritate me and make me feel bad. I'm trying hard to be a better person, and learn to be more independant so I don't have to rely so much on them in the future. Well, there's alot of stuff in my past that I don't quite wanna dig up, so i hope you get the message.I'm glad I'm 17 so i will be out soon enough.

 

Move away from your parents expectations. That does not mean to do the complete oppsite, but rather, form your own goals in life.

 

Hey queen, that was painful to read. But before I continue, maybe you should shrink your signature picture. It is very annoying and not fair to the poor souls on dial-up.

Does your dad drink heavily? Cause it sounds like it. Are these things said in a joking manner?
Maybe you were pissed off while typing that and kinda blew shit up more than it really is but if all those statements are remotely true, I feel sorry for him for pushing his daughter away.

I am not worried about you. I know you'll rebound and learn to forgive. But him...that's not what a parent is all about and is inexcusable

Someday later he will look back -perhaps while he's on his death bed- and have a ton of guilt for not encouraging and inspiring his offspring. Then again, this whole story could be someone goofing off.

 

Hey hon I've gone through that. I still am actually. My dad makes me feel like I'm just a disappiontment. The only thing I can do is be who I am. Even if he never gets it. So my advice to you is be who you are and when its time to leave, do it maturely and respectfully. At least in your heart you know you did your best to try and have a civil and loving rlationship with your parents, even if it never works out. It sucks, I know. At least you'll know how important it is to encourage and show love to a child, if you ever have any. It will take time to heal from that pain of your father and mothers expectations and discouragements. I'm still dealing with it. To this day my father is the only person that can make me cry and the litttlest thing he says can set me off. I feel so bad that you have to go through this, just turn to your friends for support and love. I hope you feel encouraged soon. Much love and hugs

 

LMAO! OW! Orange juice out the noise on that one.

 

You can't just hole up in your room and feel sorry for yourself! I know I sound horrible in saying such a thing, but if you don't get the point across soon, you'll never do it. Let your parents know how you feel. No matter what it takes, keep telling them until they listen. I personally think that it's horrible when a parent can't be proud of the child they have, not the one they think they should have gotten. I marvel at how many people can take that kind of crap from their parents. Fight back as non-violently as you can. People can create monsters out of innocent people. Don't allow yourself to take insults. Fight back.