Whoever wants to help the people on the planet to be happy HAS to find a permanent boy/girl friend with whom to build together a nest of Love in which to take care of children and friends in need. Love that hurts is not a real Love, nor animal sex for pleasure is a Real Love. The Real Love is to develop the ability to be like a child and look for what your wife/husband needs and to give them. To make them feel happy. This includes to try everyday to remain calm if your beloved is acting stupid for some reason - while we learn we make mistakes. We can learn from our mistakes only if somebody shows them to us with love, not with reacting back with anger. Real Love is Love without attachment to the body of the person we love, but to attachment to our duty to serve this person no matter what happens, because even if something really bad happens, only Love is the way to repair it. No mistake is due to the person himself, but to the wrong way he was shown by somebody else, who is also not to blame, the real enemy is the ignorant mind, who is "fed", who is supported by the people who still are living the ignorant life - the life of attachment, not pleasure in fulfilling your duty. http://petar.no-ip.com
you probably wont like what i say but ....... dont get old before your age u got to make some mistakes with some relationships inorder to know what your doing in the next, this has worked for me neway
You can eighter believe that you get burned when you touch something burning, or you can see for yourself. But what I am fighting for is - to stop these people who are shouting on every possible television and radio - It is great to burn your self - that's the only way of living! - and what happens is that people are burning themselves 2,3 ,4 , 5 times, they are burning themselves every day, but at the evening they turn on the tv, drink a few beers, and they are really sure they wont be burned again and this happens every day. What the real teachers do is they come down from the life without getting burned, in order to get us there. They are coming among you they burn for you from compassion. They burn, but don't pay attention to the pain for you, who are one with them. So, you can follow the advice and see the result, or you can try another way, which will get you at the same place. But while you're searching for "your own way", children will continue to be abused by the ignorant people, who think they know more than the children - No, you are more stupid than the children. You have to learn from them. And you have to look after them with the help of a husband, wife. http://petar.no-ip.com