One of my friends has already had intercourse with the other sex at the same age as him, which is 17 years old. But what's unusually weird is that he says that he hasn't gotten "enough" pleasure out of having sex with females being around the same age as him. He's told me before that he's attracted to older women, like women in their 30's and 40's. He's said that he gets more turned on by them. So my question is...Does anyone else find this unusually weird? Or is it just me?
Umm... I gotta say it's probably just you. Different people have different preferences. I don't find that weird at all. But hey, I have a gut feeling many will share your view on this and say it's weird. I'm just one of those "anything goes" kind of guys, sometimes regarded as a complete lunatic.
I don't typically get turned on by guy's younger than me or the same age as me. I like older guys too...so does that mean I'm weird? Probably not, because I'm a girl right? Doesn't mean that i never WOULD get turned on by a guy younger/same age as me, just means I typically don't. I'm sure that's how your friend is too.
It doesn't seem that odd to me. I thought all teenage boys fantasized about having an affair with a 30-something MILF! For one thing, they have more experience. They aren't kids trying to figure this sex thing out, they know what they're doing. As you get older, you learn more about yourself and what you enjoy, become more comfortable with your kinks and with your body, etc. Yeah, some 17 year olds are really self-aware, but most aren't so much. So an older woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to tell him may be quite appealing.
Everyone certainly is different. Ah, life's rainbow. I like having sex with guys just a little bit older than me because I'm pretty sexually experienced for my age, and more mature. But sometimes I have fantasies about really older guys (around 30 or a little younger), and man, just thinking about it makes me VERY horny. And I think it's borderline normal/weird, but certainly not a big deal. I actually know I would have already had sex with a 27 year old if it weren't for my wonderful 19 year old boyfriend whom I am intent (and content) on being with for the rest of my life. I think your friend would feel the same way if he actually found that wonderful person.
your friend is one horny mother fucker! jk. older women have more sexual experience so sex may be better with them than a virgin or a girl who has only had sex once or twice.
older women typically dont have the reservations about their body that younger women do. just my 0.02 Im almost 30 now, and have fallen in love with women just a little older than me, but dont get me wrong - there are some comin up now that make me wish I was 18 again. I swear the girls didnt look like that when I was in high school just over 10 years ago.
its not weird at all. Actually its natural. See guys reach their sexual peak at age 17 or 18. Women reach their sexual peak in their late 20's or 30's. so this kid kind of has ...shall we say "right on the money'? hah Lisa
It's not all that unusual for some younger men to be attracted to older women -- and vice-versa. But a 17-year-old adolescent boy attracted to women on the cusp of middle age? That IS unusual. Is it legal? It depends on what the age of consent is where he lives; it varies from state to state. Is it weird? It HAS to be weird for the older woman, who'd have to walk on a legal and societal tightrope. Intergenerational relationships -- especially when one of the partners is a minor -- are highly controversial in our society; much more so than interracial or even same-sex relationships. They instantly raise a host of emotional and legal hot buttons, not the least of which is the older partner being branded a "pedophile." Because of this, your 17-year-old friend may find himself frustrated in his search for a 30-year-old-or-older girlfriend. Few women that age would even consider getting involved with him, either erotically or romantically -- and in some states, they legally don't dare. And there's almost nothing he can do about it. -- Skeeter
I have always generally gone for younger girls in the past, my last couple of ex's have been 5-6 years younger than me.. I'm currently, for the first time since school, dating someone exactly the same age as me, and its just perfect - wish i'd done it years ago!
You do of course know that there is more to the world than the US? In the UK (where I am) a 17 year old is not a minor as far as sexual relationships go - and its the same in a lot of other countries.
Having been in a long-term relationship with a "minor" once, let me say again that it IS possible. Before anyone jump to the negative conclusions, let me assure you all that our relationship was based on beautiful, genuine, mutual love. Everyone around us accepted our relationship and were very supportive about it. It really comes down to two people being attracted to each other.
theres a huge difference in maturity & sexual peek its true males reach theyre sexual peek younger & females are at theyre peek older on the other hand females mature earlier, & males never at all..hehe
