i have a problem satsifying my boyfriend, help!

hahha ur soo funny mhr, gosh i cna't keep from laughing

 

I am a guy, i loose intrest sometimes too. i think more of having sex... and loose intrest in it. It is most likely not you. Like some others suggested to you. use your hands alot. Jack him off and then use your mouth too. maybe try a tighter grip and twist your wrist back and forth while jacking it and following your hand with your mouth. that is the best feeling to a guy. hope that helps.

 

Not true you could become pregnant in the throat and spit your babie out .

 

hahaha, thats funny spliff

 

And I suppose YOU can do a better job at performing blowjobs, eh? Or are you better at kissing ass -- Jackass, that is?


-- Skeeter

 

Keep being an asshole on this forum and you'll find out just how tough I can really get.

-- Skeeter

 

Ahh.. I see. You attack me for giving my opinion in a straight forward unsugarcoated way and now you are going to ban me or something? Classic censorship and has nothing to do with being tough. You going to ban everyone that disagrees with you Skeeter? Takes more of a man to deal with differences then it does to censor them, so yeah I stand by my statement... "Internet tough guy"

 

What you call "straightforward, unsugarcoated" was, in fact, RUDE and INSULTING. Calling Nature Goddess' sex life "pathetic" was RUDE and INSULTING.
That's why I called you an "asshole." You were being rude to Nature Goddess, so I reacted accordingly.
You owe her an apology.

-- Skeeter

 

hmm, the first time my girlfriend went down on me (which happens to have been the first time for me) the same thing happened. i just lost interest and wouldn't stay up. it wasn't that i was unappreciative or anything, i just couldn't keep my mind on it. i would look around at the room, think about random things, etc. we talked about it, and since then she's gone down on me plenty of times, and its been great. maybe he just wasn't expecting it and felt nervous when you've done it. if he doesn't feel comfortable, it doesn't matter how good at it you are. i'd say that both of you should feel equal and balanced, and be open and comfortable with each other. for the record, especially when a relationship is first starting out, sometimes a guy just wants to make the person he loves feel good and would feel more uncomfortable than anything by having her 'repay the favor.' this seems to be mostly in the beginning when both people aren't used to being intimate with each other. im sure this is all cliche and has been posted already somewhere, but i just felt i should share my experience with it. hope it helps.

 

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.. I see!!! This isn't a free speech forum like everyone proclaims it to be. This is a "only speak if it's positive" forum.

We are only supposed to show support for a 15 year old that's giving handjobs and blowjobs and call it glorious and fullfilling and congratulate her about this brilliant and wonderfull life decision. How dare anyone actually think it's pathetic and how dare they voice this opinion in a forum where many 15 year olds read this thread. How dare anyone try and dissuade this type of distructive behavior.

I don't owe anyone an apology. She is allowed to post her beliefs and I am allowed to post mine. This world isn't all positive Skeeter. Not everything a person does should be rewarded with praise.

 

its true what ur sayings, well some of it the part bout being able to post what u beleive, but i asked for help not to be chopped down by you...........u don't have to be such a dick all the time

 

I wasn't planning on being a dick, but it was obvious anything said that differs from what you wanted to hear was going to be nullified so I said Fit and gave my straight up opinion. You apparently got what you really wanted though, a quick temporary fix to the problem.... give him hand jobs. Congratulations, glad you found something that worked.

 

mhr,
It's quite easy to criticise someone without being rude and insulting. You can disagree with someone politely. Like I'm doing here.

I'm guessing you're not going to read this and feel hurt, but if you refer to a child as pathetic, then they might well feel hurt.

I'm not saying you're the bad guy, because it seems almost everyone here is hurling insults. I'm trying to point out that there is a vast 'middle area' between compliments and insults. I tend to stick to this middle area myself most of the time. Hence everything I say is really boring.

 

maybe your boy friend is really gay and doesnt know it. but if he is not play with his balls a little bit while you are giving him head

 

Dizzy Man, I respect your post.

However, for a forum that is all about free speech, it sure amazes me how many times people get told to adjust their way of posting. Doesn't that go against the very nature of everything this site was supposed to stand for?

Life isn't always fair and polite. If you post on a public forum that you are 15 years old and trying to decide between a blowjob and handjob, then expect to receive some flack. I don't get this damn site at all sometimes. These people pretend to be old enough to give head, fuck in the ass, titty fuck, 3ways, scat play and whatever the fuck else kinky shit they can think of, yet they can't take a few harsh words concerning their choices. GIVE ME A Fin BREAK MAN!

 

you guys are taking this age thing way too seriously. when I was 13 I dated someone who was 17 and it didn't bother him. I always have dated older guys and age difference has never bothered us.

 

See... here we go again! Blatant generalization and leaving out specifics that confuses the whole damn issue. Nobody is talking about simple dating here. Where in this entire thread does it say "JUST DATING". I think the subject matter "blowjobs and handjobs" is just a tad bit beyond just dating... ya think? So... no, we aren't taking this age thing too seriously when it comes to just dating.

 

Question: How to give better BJ's?

Answer: I agree with the masses, The best option is comminucation with him, General teqniques usually work, But there's always personal touches for both Men and Women when It comes to sex and love. Hope you have a good talk with him, Nature, I was 17 when I first had sex with my 15 year old Girlfriend, It takes a while to find out eachothers pleasures but you'll get there in the end Stay sencible, Use protection and stop if you feel uncomphortable with anything.

MHR - I'm slightly confused.. You make a valid opinion on underage sex, But that was not what was asked.. If she had asked if people thought it was right then fair play.. Anyway, I'll not get into this with you, I'm here to enjoy the company of other people and new friends, I have no issue with you as I don't know you, Just an observation. Peace.

 

finally some who agrees wiht me thank u pencil