I think that everyone has there own insecurities. No one really wants to talk about them with other people and they just try to deal with them by themselves. Even those girls who look perfect they struggle with looking how they do believe it or not. I have a friend who is tiny like she has a perfectly flat stomach and perfectly skinny. But one time when me and her were tripping nuts in my basement just the two of us we sat there and were taking about insecurities and she was telling me how she hates how skinny she is and she feels like shes tooo skinny but of course shes not going to go around and tell everyone she hates being too skinny because people will just look down on her and be like "oh shut up you just want attention blah blah blah" If this makes any sense im kind of rambling. But basically I think everyone suffers from insecurities whether its being fat or having a big nose.
rightyhooo girls and boys, a few things i wanna add to this forum. right no one in the world loves their body as much as what people say 'they' do, i bet you could have the prettiest, skinniest girl/boy in the world and he /she would find a fault, bloody hell guys im happy i still get days where i hate myself - everyone thinks they are to fat, to thin, to ugly, to pretty, you are what you are, dont get surgery or anything then u wont look like your kids, people have dont it and its like is that kid your or ur mates!!!! u might not have mentioned surgery here but i wanted to add that lol. but chill out - have fun, and after all think you are prettier than some people, you kow the sort i mean the sort when your walking down the road and this really really ugly person walks past and u thank fuck it aint you. there we go thats what i had to say xxx
RE: i cant stand looking at myself sometimes. its so frustrating. i never feel comfortable with myself, i always feel like people are looking at me and thinking "oh wow she looks fat" in their head. Pink, I've seen yr pic, you're quite cute. Ditto _orgazmik_. Guys don't dig scrawny women. Don't look at the "beauty industry" for tips on how to look. It's run by gay men, that would very much like everyone to look like a 14 year old boy. Ya wanna see what cute women are, check out "Fritz the Cat" and see how lovingly every bounce of a naturally curvy body has been animated.
Wow I sure am glad I found this thread. The outpouring of sympathy from everybody makes me feel a little better about my body too. Its not just you girls. I often have the desire to just slice my man-tits right off. Sadly though, guys seem to prefer women a bit chubbier than women idealize themselves, yet women seem to prefer guys skinnier than guys idealize themselves. Ah well.....I'll have a picture of me up soon and you can judge my hideousness for yourself.
My man wears large, sometimes extra large sizes. He is the sexiest man i've met She's out there somewhere.
Amen! BLEH to those magazine girls and all those spray painted models. They look more plastic than human.
i get so annoyed :$ when girls yap on about fad diets (not talking about anyone on this forum ) i bodybuild. and i want all the girls who feel bad about their body to listen up. your body is designed for survival. so DO NOT STARVE YOURSELF! if you do your metabolic rate (rate at which your body burns off fat) will slow down. also if you starve yourself, your body will devour the muscle off itself giving you a small body mass but a greater body fat%. to get great results that stick you need to eat 6 meals a day. the meals must be spaced out evenly throughout the day and must contain as much protein as possible. the total amount of food taken in per day must be slightly less than what you would usually eat. while eating this you need to go for three morning runs (30 mins) minimum. this means keeping your heart beat above 120/minute. if anyone is interested in learning more feel free to pm me if you do this you will get good steady results. stick with it and in 2 months you will have the body of your dreams.