since it seems some here by choice or not arent having sex and feel excluded from my other poll i must ask..
Eh. I voted that I'm not having sex even though I had sex like under a week ago.. but that was something that won't be repeated anytime soon. I'm just not looking for a sexual relationship right off the bat. No one ever seems to want to take things slow and one step at a time these days.
I voted celebate. I usually preffer to take things slow with relationships, and seeing that recently, relationships haven't progressed that far, it has been a little over a year for me. I tend to lose interest easier as I get older probably because I know more clearly what I want in a relationship, but more importantly what I don't want. So I usually end relationships when I start noticing things that don't jive with my personality/lifestyle and before they have gotten so intense that it is difficult breaking apart. I don't really mind it though. For me a fulfilling relationship has so much more to offer than just sex. So, to put it another way, If I do miss something, I miss a good relationship more than I miss sex!
Ahhh! I know that feeling. You know what I miss the most? Cuddling while watching TV and sweet little kisses laying around on a lazy cool summer day.
If you're talking specifically about the male of the human species -- particularly those under 30 years of age -- the latter part of your post is indeed true. -- Skeeter
*sigh* those would be the very ones. I need to stop dating boys and date men. I'm sick of being more experienced and advanced then my partners. They never really have anything to contribute into the relationship.
i said active, but that's because im in a serious relationship. i dont think i'm the type to sleep around with random people, so idk what i would have said if i wasn't with anyone. for the record though, in regards to the aforementioned idea of people under 30 not wanting to get to know someone and really feel for them, but rather just trying to get some action--i disagree. even if the ratio is drastically uneven, there are still people who'd rather sleep with someone they've taken the time to get to know and love, than someone they might not really care about at all.
Well I have sex if I'm in a relationship or not... But of course it's not the same, the feeling is much better in a relationship... But sex, drugs and rock 'n' roll that's a way of life... Tho I don't do hard drugs, just a bit of weed sometimes, I leave te hard drugs for the techno fans I've chosen just to surrender to the 'dark side' , since it was pretty much ruling me all along... But even tho I enjoy casual sex I've never ever cheated on anyone, and never will no matter what happens... And no matter what you may think of me I think you're probably wrong, when I like a girl I open the door for her, I carry her bags, hell I carry her if she's tired, I stick up for her, I make breakfast for her (even tho I suck at it ), well if she sleeps longer than me that is and always puts her needs before my own *plumes myself*
I am active because I am in a very happy relationship.....in fact, I was active around 6:00am this morning! YAYAYA for sex!