What do you think about marriage?

How do you feel about marriage and would you like to be married oneday? (If you are already married you are not allowed to get a divorce in my post lol.)

 

I've tossed this around in my mind a lot.

On one hand, I'd love to be married and be able call a person my husband and have the perfect little family. Also, I'd get to change my last name which is choice.

On the other hand, if someone wants to be with me, it would be great to have them there because they wanted to be, not because they HAD to be because of a piece of paper.

I don't care about the whole wedding thing. I never was one of those little girls that dreamed about it. Seems like it's much ado about nothing in that respect...

I'm undecided about marriage.

 

I think too many people want weddings, NOT marriages. From what I have seen, the more your wedding costs, the higher the chance for divorce.

That being said, my wedding was small, inexpensive, and in a house.

 

cool, 'cause my wedding cost about 100 dollars, I guess 300 if you count clothing.

 

Marriage was originally an agreement between a man and a woman whereby the woman would give the man bootie anytime he wanted it in return for the man protecting the woman ass from other men getting bootie anytime they wanted it. While we have added a few social protocols, it remains pretty much the same and it is institutionalized rape.

If men ever evolve and come to understand that love and not might makes right, there will be no need for the institution.

 

marriage.. ahh it could be so sweet and beautiful.

ive been living with my boyfriend for about a year now..well hes been living with me and my mom rather- but he does work and contribute to the house

living with him is great. and i love him to death.

wedding? weve talked about it and we want one but not a HUGE fancy one, i dont like dressing up all amzingly pretty and stuff.

weve been through some tuff times (pregnancy) and we decided to abort it.. sadly. im still not over it, but i was only 15 and i couldnt handle it properly at that time. but weve talked about it, and he REALLY wanted to have it, but understood the circumstances. it hurts me so much knowing that he wanted it so much -shit im tearing up now- but its nice to know that he does want to start a family with me.

as far as marriage, i think i would marry him.


its a tough choice but i think i am going to marry him.. sweet bliss

 

I think that's going a little overboard. I'm not sure how getting married really means "institutionalized rape"...it's not like either party is saying no to having sex with one another...

That didn't really make much sense.

 

you have yet to find the right one darlin'
yes, most men are like that, even mine to an extent..
he does not go on about SEX SEX SEX TITTY SEX BUTT.. etc
but he understands love, and yes he likes might...
but as long as you let them think they have the might it's all alright
i gotta love the dummy..
all men have those thoughts, most women do as well
its just.. .life

 

molly hasnt found the right man yet?

 

You're right, I always feel bad when my man wakes up to "sex in progress".....for some reason he never complains...

 

All this being said, I got married at age 31 due to immigration law, and would not have done it any younger than that

 

If you can go beyond your linear belief systems that steer your reality, you will see and feel that previously what made sense does not make sense and what does not make sense does indeed make sense.

Marriage is one of property ownership where the woman was the property of the man and other vices versa. Yes, it has changed and evolved somewhat but we will know society has come to understand the true meanings of love and relationship when they have as big if not bigger party at the divorce as they did the wedding for at the divorce ceremony, there could really be a time of celebration of all that was done together and good times had.

 

Um....yeah

Sure...

 

they just dont know, do they?

 

i dont know...next time around i think i want a ceremony not a marriage...
they are too hard to get out of...you can envision being with someone forever, but you cannot foresee the way the two of you will change

 

You know, that's exactly what my ma says. She had her justice of the peace wedding and has been married forever but people that have had big glmerous weddings didn't stay married half as long. She says save the money for a house lol. (You said that as well.)

 

MAEWWIDGE

 

No no no, that's prostitution. Marriage is when your dad gives your husband bootie in exchange for what you will be giving your husband.

 

Can't remember who first said it...but I agree with 'em

"marraige is an institution, and I ain't ready to be institutionalised yet"

 

It trips me out how people think marriage is more of a commitment than having kids with an unmarried person. You can't ask for the sperm to be taken out of your egg wants a guy gets you pregnant and doesn't want you anymore. I think people are love their money so much that they are engaged to it. those prenuptial agreements are terrible. You are just waiting for someone to screw up so that you can live with the one you love, your money.