agressive child:(

Discussion in 'Parenting' started by honeytree, Jul 20, 2005.

  1. honeytree

    honeytree Member

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    I live with my family and we have a big home but not big enuf. My sisters child is only 2 and she is so agressive my child is 4 and he was never this mean. She bites, pules hair,pinches,and so much more. I just dont know what to do. The children are never alone together and now never wil because My child will not stand up for his self and I'm not shure what to do my family wants him to do the same to here but I'm woried that it will make him a bully or worse. We my child and I are very kind caring people and beleave in do on to others as you would have them do onto you. I did find them locked in pinching eachother one day and he is somuch bigger than she is. I just dont know what to do. help and love Honey
     
  2. stephaniesomewhere

    stephaniesomewhere Member

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    don't let them to encourage him to hit back. That is just so wrong and only teaches him the wrong way to deal with other people and problems he may have. Sounds like the little girl needs to be taken aside when she does this to him. She is testing the boundaries of what is ok and needs to be told this is not ok, otherwise she may keep doing it...but more imporantly you don't want your little boy to start behaving like that so talk with him and explain that she is smaller and younger and doesn't understand and help him through dealing with this.

    good luck
    :)stephanie
     
  3. Crayola

    Crayola =)

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    i suggest u talk to your sister about it. and if no one in your family is gonna help u raise your child the way u want him to be raised (that is, peacefully), then they're not friendly, so move out...


    good luck =)
     
  4. honeytree

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    thanks I needed some peacefull thoughts
     
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