It scares me . . . I'm a pretty passive person so I much more comfortable not really being in control and letting the other person "do" things to me, rather being the assertive party. However, I now for the first time am having sex with someone I'm actually in a relationship with, and this is something I think I need to get over. I'm afraid of not knowing what to do, or not doing it right, and . . . everything. Oh, help.
just go with the flow, but if u dont wanna do anything dont do it. dont be scared, sex it mainly about fun and enjoyment, have a glass of wine to rflax u before, or a vallium lol
well, it's about kissing. u like to kiss his lips? his chest? why not down there? its all an act of love. as someone said, if it feels right, then u're probably doing it right. if u think u're not doing what he'd like u to do, then talk to him about it, ask him what he wants. (wait til your mouth is empty tho, ..altho that could be kinky,..)
