wTF is WronG wiTh me?-sex related question

i have done every position BUT missionary.
and none of them get me off...

 

First of all, for anyone to answer the question right you actually have to ask it right. Whoever jumped on feelingroovy needs to STFU because feelingroovy was right and foreplay IS NOT oral sex and having an orgasim??? or did you mean orgasm?, but it's not uncommon for people to think it is. Foreplay is about arousal and stimulation, but as usual true definitions fall on deaf ears around these forums. Words sort of take on their own meaning around here which confuses people that actually know the real definitions.

Sounds to me you've never actually experienced foreplay and that's a shame because it can add more to the experience then sex itself.

 

Yeah, don't worry so much. Just be yourself. If you need wetness use spit. It's cheap and easy. All people are different. I knew a girl who couldn't stop having orgasms constantly, but she wasn't the best in bed. I knew other women who could turn me on just by their presence. They would get me off in two seconds. There's no telling. Chemistry is alot of it if not everything.

If maybe you feel disconnected from your feminine parts then place your mind in them and think like them. Use them like a tool and see if that rather organic and dummied down sexuality works for you.

 

humm I ment orgasm... mM spelling isnt the best.
Your right, I probably havent had REAL fore-play then... Honestly if it is just stimulation w/out orgasim, it sounds pointless...
I dont get off from penitration, so why wouldent I want to get off from fore-play??

What about girls that DONT have a G-spot inside?? What would you do then?
Because I am one of those girls. Clitoral stimulation is the ONLY way I can get off.... period.

 

If your taking birth control it has a tend. to do that try a different one, i hear the low dosage ones r better for that prob. maybe someone needs some oral lovin and clit sensation before insertion, makes sense right.

 

maybe you need a dick that can actually reach your g spot, its located about 7-8 inches on the roof(top). try doggy style with someone rubbin your clit at the same time.

 

if all else dont work try ice(be creative)

 

no its not ...
its located 2-3 inches inside ont he top of the vaginal wall.. ha

im not on birth control. i gain too much weight on it.

 

Hardly pointless. The sexual experience can be as simple or complex as people want to make it. There are ways to cause an orgasm without ever touching the sex organs of males or females. An orgasm this way can transcend any regular orgasm. Whats annoying around here is that everyone is concerned with the final OOOOOOOOOO instead of the actual journey of getting there which is far more rewarding and satisfying. Especially when you commit yourself entirely to the person. This is what lacks with a lot of these younger kids who just want to get off and move on. No true commitment creates a barrier that keeps sex at the most basic level. This is why we constantly see younger kids always asking what the problems are with their relationship.

 

sounds like mhr has some true knowledge and experience here. I would highly agree with what he has to say. To many, the best part of sex is the foreplay (which can last hours) that builds up to the orgasm. Experiencing a full orgasm is a combination of mental, emotional, and physical stimulation. As far as "getting the juices flowing" this can actually only be achieved for many woman after intense foreplay and prolonged stimulation. Of course orgasm, in no means, has to involve intercourse to be very fulfilling. Foreplay can even be very important to oral sex as well. Also, from my experience and from many of my girlfriends experiences orgasms are always better after good foreplay.


To end, I have had at least two good female friends who for many years into their adulthood had never experienced orgasm even though they had had multiple sex partners. For both of them, when they were able to have orgasm they bot admitted that it was the mental/psychological stimulation that had been missing in the past. For many people, a shallow approach to sex, can provide for very disappointing experiences!

 

Im not the impatient one, all the looser guys I date are.
not one guy I have been with has been willing to take their time.. they always just go for the gold..

I guess I am just royally fucked then.
I have only gotten ONE orgasm from another person, in my whole life....
and that was from oral sex...

 

Don't worry about it. Not every woman cums during fucking. My wife doesn't. Well, only in certain positions like on top. I get her off with my tongue. She's ok with it. It's not the end of the world.

Masturbating each other is fun. On that note we once were coming back from the beach. Instead of changing into her clothes I asked her to just wear the towel. I masturbated her, while I was driving. Oh shit! Our turn was coming up, I swerved over into the right lane and rear ended a car.

Or you guys can use a vibrtor until you feel you know exactly what it will take to get you off. Maybe you're just very exacting. Just try everything, you know, with someone you like.

I once bought my wife a ten pound chocolate bar and we did everything you can imagine with it. Let me tell you chocolate and pussy don't go well together. The taste, yeah fine, but once it's in it's hard to get out. Play around. Find your own rules. Find your own motion. Make it yours and trademark it.

 

haha;
i wish i had somone to experiment with.

 

u kin come down here ......ill take the time to put ya there 100x ......

 

That is such a shame. It's even more of a shame that we don't know each other!

 

hahah it is?? would you take the time for please me??
it usually takes me about 45 min minimum to get my self off....
i dont think you would last hha

 

I like challenges. Especially ones of such a nature.

 

Well, actually..... you sort of are. If you aren't willing to keep the store closed until the guy earns his entrance, then you are being impatient.

Then why give them the gold? Goes back to being impatient. If you aren't willing to hold out for some respect then you are just as guilty as these guys.

And quit dating loser guys. Guys are so easy to figure out it surprises me that any girl would EVER need to complain about ending up with a loser.

 

i have only had sex with two guys before.
how is that being impatient.. i dont want them to "go for the gold", but i cant control what they do.

 

er, yes you can. You're the woman in the relationship, we have the power when it comes to sex about 99% of the time. Just say something like "not yet hon, I'm not quite ready yet" and have more foreplay. From what I've heard, most guys like it when the girl takes control too