Oral "favor" oppurtunity???

I guess this is mainly for girls but anyone's input is welcome...

For girls... If u were a guy (the opposite sex) and a fairly new female friend wanted to give u an "Oral favor", but really wasnt after anything else.... Like an oral favor or regular sex in return. How willing would u be down for having a "favor" done for u? Like no questions asked?

Or in a different scenario, say ur still the same sex u are now (female). and a guy wanted to "do" u a favor, But it wasn't clear about what he was expecting in return... How willing would u be then? Would u say wut the hell its a free eat out, and let him? or would part of you feel obliged to return the favor?

I guess my question in general is.... Do oral favors come with some kinda expectations of repaying you "debts" And does ur expected reimburstment depend on which sex you are?

 

umm.. good questions..

I would be very willing to give oral to a guy i didnt know well...
But i wouldent be willing to have it done in return.. that would be odd...

 

Sometimes I go down on boys and don't expect anything in return.

 

How come I've never met you girls?!?!?!?

 

yeh i kinda feel wut val said... I dunno if it's a widely held opinion, but it seems like girls are more often down to do guys a favor

 

Going down on a girl... my pleasure! Seriously, the idea of oral pleasure as a favor to be repaid makes me feel uneasy, I'd stay clear of that.
I hate everything with "strings attached" except when it comes down to guitars.

 

in truth, I think it's only fair to return the favour. Not because it's necessary, but it jsut seems fair, tit for tat and all. If I were in a relationship, for example, where the guy wouldn't perform oral on me, I wouldn't perform it on him with any regularity (if ever), because it's not very fair. I wouldnt' demand return if I were just doing it out of pure horniness as a one-time thing, but any regularity or relationship... I just think it helps balance things out. Not necessary a perfect matchign of one oral for one oral, but keeps things from getting too wonky.

 

What makes you so sure it's to do the guy a favor?????

I Love giving Oral, I probably enjoy it more then he does.

 

thx for da replies, but i think more in terms of outside of relationships, like hook ups and wut not.

If your a girl, why does it seem odd to let a guys toungue touch ur spot? But it's normal to stick his rod in ur mouth? to me it just seems more uncomfortable to go down on someone u dont know really well. Wouldnt u be more inclined towards recieveing?

 

well to answer your question... i think i'd be willing to let a guy go down on me.. but i would feel bad if i didn't "return the favor" honestly... not that i would mind, though, unless i wasn't attracted to him at all and just using him for the "oral favor" lol that sounds horrible.. but seriously, if he just really wanted to eat me out just for the sake of eating me out, i think i'd be cool with it. depending on who it is and all... know what i mean? it's totally situational for me. sometimes i'm more willing to give oral than recieve it.

 

mostly girls are more self concious then guys.. thats what i think..
if a strange guy was to go down on me i would be scared..
scared of tasting weird, smelling bad, or looking different... thats just me though. Also i feel fat too.. and i dont want a guy seeing "all" of me...

When i go down on guys i dont care about anything, i dont feel selfconcious.

 

this is definitely true for a LOT of girls. lots of good feedback on how you are "down there" is necessary for a lot of girls to be confident i think... always hearing guys talking about bad smells/tastes/looks.. too hairy, or smelled like fish, or whatever... it's incredibly intimidating.

 

^^^never thought of that... so fish smell jokes carry a sort of persona?

I'm not really a fan in the first place of looking at female genitalia close up.. But I dig the female body and all... So if i were to find a girl in clothing attractive enough to want to offer a eat out for no particular reason, Then i wouldnt be very fussy over a couple "imperfect" square inches... I would say a girls hips and lower stomach would keep me more than occupied. enough so that I def would not stand up in the middle and halt the whole process because of a hair stub or two...

So if i were a girl and approached by a guy offering first, then i'd prolly not think twice about the possibility of him "being picky".

 

I must say, if I were approached by some random guy or even a friend, I probably wouldn't let it happen still. I mean, it's nice in theory, but it can screw up relationships, and strangers, yech. Not a one-night stand kinda gal I guess.

 

What puts me off recieving is I'm always worriedthat guys will think I"m festy and gross because I dont shave my pussy, even though like it better unshaved and I like guys to be natural too. not that I would mind if they werent, it just seems there is so much pressure to be hairless... it really puts me off getting head

 

i dont like it at all when girls shave their shit bald
screw

 

Like my boy for exmple, actually commented... "oh, I'm not used to it, my ex used to shave hers completely"

which made me feel great... not!!!

 

RE:What puts me off recieving is I'm always worriedthat guys will think I"m festy and gross because I dont shave my pussy, even though like it better unshaved and I like guys to be natural too. not that I would mind if they werent, it just seems there is so much pressure to be hairless... it really puts me off getting head.

I agree with you 100%...
i am the oposite though..
I shave and I hate it natural... it really bugs me.. it is itchy and irritating..I havent had pubes since i was 14...

I really get freaked out when guys go down on me.. it has to be in the dark hahahaha.. I also get REALLY selfconcious about my stomach.. it isnt as flat as i want it to be..

 

omg thats horrid.. i hate it when they bring up their Ex's... GR

 

jeez, that's the prettiest way I've ever heard a pussy referred to Each person has their preferences and all, but if a guy can't be appreciative of whomever's genitals he gets to be close to, he doesn't deserve to be there. Ditto for girls. I've heard stories of girls going "ew gross" or equivalent after a guy ejaculates... that's just gotta be great for the ego (like hearing your genitals referred to as shit).