should i be happy?

my mom found a bag of weed in my room. shes pretty worried and she keeps giving me lectures on how i should i never try anything other than weed (i wont tell her about my mushroom adventures). anyway, she told me that i am alowd to smoke weed but only on the weekend and never during the week. i guess its pretty cool that shes so tolerant but she doesnt seem to understand that for me its more of a social drug. its a part of my life that i love and want to use daily. all shes done by telling me this is make me feel guilty whenever i smoke. man, she ruined all my happiness. now i have to go 5 days of sobriety and depression or i can smoke weed and i feel depression cause of the guilt. why cant she just turn a blind eye the way she tells me her parents did. she turned out fine, i wish she trusted me to make my own decisions when it comes to my body. my dad isnt even getting involved, thank god.

 

just talk to her about it thats the best you can do

 

she has reasons. she might of had trouble keeping jobs, stealing to pay for her habit. her parents shrugging it off might have shown her they didn't care and doesn't want the same for you. eventaully drugs will take over your life. you'll be the most popular and most hated person. you'll disapear and no one will give a damn cause you just a drugged out loser. quit while you're ahead

 

give him a break its just pot.

 

i can't help it. i have no sympathy for pot users since my friend of 12 years, who was living in my basement stole money from me and my mother to feed his habit. which started at the begining of high school. so i'm a little bitter and less trusting now thanx to that p.o.s.

 

dude, my mom was not a drug addict. she just always tells me that her parents didnt pay her attention so she doesnt want to do the same to me. in fact, shes probably only tried pot once which is why i dont really respect her rules towards it because she cannot speak out of experiance.

i have to ask, are you a drug user yourself? you sound very close-minded.

 

your a dick you know that? people dont get like that with bud! its fucking bud were talking about here! everyone does it! anyways, your mom is pretty kewl about it, so just talk to her and explain yourself and shell probably think twice about it. maybe you guys can smoke together...good way to bond..

 

i only do it on teh weekends. its normal for parents to not want their kids to do weed at your age, during teh week at least. yud learn heaps less at school (if anything anyway). any stoner wud have to admit that its ahrder to learn when stoned.. i mean, cmon. at least if u do it after school then yull feel less guilty caus it wud be not going agaisnt yur mum's intentions as much.

 

atleast your parents arent like mine. if my parents knew, id be dead right now....

 

ive been doing it at lunch most days and i managed to finish the year with B average. the truth is, i really have NO social skills without marijuana and i might just have the worst year of my life next year. oh well, at least my highs will be better when i do get stoned.

 

maybe not on the weed alone. throw in some crappy parents and a.d.d, and a self obsessive attidude and you have a piece of shit. and you are young. you haven't seen it yet. get around my age you see the peeps who have been taken over by drugs. espaicially in a little town where that's all people do. luckily i didn't get in to it and i'm pretty happy about it. but never let it control you and it sounds like you're becoming dependant when you ask some of those questions and make those statements.

 

One time somebody stole money from me because he wanted to get somthing to eat. To this day i hate everybody that eats food.

See how stupid that sounds?

Also, i hang out with lots of adults that have been smoking pot there whole life, and they are fine, they have not been takin over by drugs. Maybe u just keep in very bad company? If u dislike smokers so much why hang out with them and come to marijuana forums?

 

Heh, good one.

Marquee...you're complaining about your mom telling you that you can only smoke on certain days? My god, if my mom found pot in my room she'd lock me in the house and yell until she was blue in the face, then I'd get lecture after lecture, not leave the house for months, lose all source of entertainment...don't complain bud. And maybe if you're so dependent on it, what with it being the only way you can be social, then maybe you should work on that in your free non-high time. That's not exactly the best thing to do to make yourself depend on it to accomplish a goal. Get some books or find some close friends to practice this social thing with to help you out...but depending on it? No no no, that's definitely not good. Much luck with that.

 

Although I am a hipocrit and don't follow my own advise, in my personal opinion, one should only toke on the weekends anyway.... but now it's summer and therefore just one big-ass two-month weekend so it's all good for now!

 

Wow, your lucky, I wish my parents told me I could

 

try asking if you can do it on weekdays, instead of weekends, lol.

then on weekends just go 'to hang out with some friends'

 

Its not the dope that did that, but the persons fuckedup ness. I would never steal anything its against what I believe, I would get loads of bad karma and I dont want that.

 

you're a good man. but you gotta see lindsay ontario to understand. or maybe it's me, who knos

 

When my kids was teenagers I allowed even smoked with my daughter. She could smoke at home from the time she was 14. She started drinking at home at age 16. My rule was that all partying had to be done at home. That way I didn't have to worry about her driving or being with someone who was driving under the influnence. It worked out very well for us. She has since quit smoking and has presented us with our first granddaughter. My husband's and my view is some what different then most parents. I figured that most teens does experiment. So we allowed the soft stuff. No heavy drugs was allowed and I would have freaked out if I found out they was being used. She never did.

 

totally cool mom! i respect you. i wish my rents would be like that .. oh man