taking responsibility for one's actions

My pet peeve is people who hide beneath a cloak of someone else or the feeling its' self as the cause instead of looking in themsewlves and realizing that they created their own results. I have been guilty of this so many times; letting go of the feeling and puting it on someone else by manipulation instead of looking inside of me. I know personally I will be truely enlightened, proupd of myself the person I want to be when I learn to control my own destiny by taking responsibility instead of being upset with others for things that i caused. make any sense or is it my natural pain killers here? heh

 

yea fo sure i get you i mean be your own thing and belive in it no madder what people say

 

I know what you are talking about.

 

i mean your opion is you opion dont let anybody change it

 

exactly i act so irrational sometimes but i know when i get slammed for it it's a result of how irrational i was not the person who slammed me. i used to get fired for insubordination at countless jobs-seriously i prob got fired about 10 times, each time i claimed it was someone elses fault not my own.i as soon as i took responsibility for my actions i stopped getting fired. i mean you can ap0ply that logic to any area of life.

 

Do unto others....

heh heh

 

logic is life

 

logicalway

 

exactly why do some people think they have the right to treat others like shit and then owe woe is me when it comes to bite them in the ass. ive been hurt so many times but i have the ability to decifer when it's my fault and when it's someone elses...usually i come to the conclusion that its my fault and learn from it. usually situations are pretty black and white.
we are vain we are blind and I hate people when they're not polite heh yah sure as shit do onto others.

 

yea, i was like that too. whenever i fucked up or something, i'd always try to blame a part on someone else that forced me to fuck up or just blatantly blame it all on someone else. then i'd always feel bad if that person got in some trouble. but now i take all responsibility for whatever i fucked up with and try to fix it if possible. i have the integrity to say i fucked up. then i also try to stay out of situations were its a good possibility that somethign will be messed up, but then again, life brings uncertanties and something happens.

basically, i own up to all my actions now.

 

well ive been blamed for fucking months and im fucking done with taking the weight of some elses confused feelings on my shoulders as my shoulders are already carrying more weight and pain then they can bear from my own stupidity i can't handle taking on the stupidity of others right now heh. god i used to be the worst at blaming though my mom thought every teacher was out to get me heh.

 

oh i know what you mean...i hate taking the blame for other people. it fucking blows. i just recently was blamed at work for the campers not picking up trash when i wasn't even sitting with the kids eating lunch. the councilors that sat with the kids should have made the kids pick up thrash before going back to there sport. but nope...i get blamed because other councilors didn't tell their kids to pick up the trash. simple solution - which has been brought up many times - have the kids pick up thrash before allowign them back to their sport. its not that hard, but i guess someone needed to blame it on...

 

You are wise.

One of the greatest realizations in life is to know when you fucked up. But even better to know when some folks fucked up worse and you just have to let it go because they are just that way.

Try explaining the dynamics of being aware to a corporate pinky in the first five minutes that you've met them....It never works...

Know the person you must convince to be less shitty first....

 

my pet peeve is when people bitch. but that is prolly just me. go hollywood shoe shoping!

 

I bitch alot....but I take the blame when the blame is mine.

My shoes are Chuck's....

http://www.converse.com/zproductdetails.asp?zcatid=2&zsubcatid=4&zgenid=&leftnavid=1&leftnavsubid=2&sku=M9162#

since '83

heh heh

 

i have the black low tops... theyre cute
its okay we all know inside what we caused, we are the only ones who know our true intentions. what weight someone has to bear for causing others damage is worse than my concern for getting blamed. we are our own judges and it is our individual conciences that have to bear our own judgements. i was the only on who played fair and i know that in my heart. i did the right thing for months and was patient and trusting and got fucking burned-thats not on me im not going to feel someone elses burns i did for months im fucking done and its the biggest load of stress off of me ever. i was contimplating leaving my fucking soulmate the love of my life the one i clicked with like no other in fear of getting burned by this other person-me no, my soulmate-no but someone who really shouldn't have been involved at all nevermind try to take him away from me with so little regard to his and my feelings. im done feeling like i was wrong im done carryong the weight and the worry of her manipulation and the doubts others have i dont have to carry those either because now i have no worry of failure i have a perfect rose thats no longer has thorns of tainted advice around it and the water that feeds it is now perfectly clear with no barriers that prevent it from drinking and growing. and even if something unexpected and horrible happens this rose will be fine drinking her own ater by herself. oh and i take full responsibility for the perfectly rolled joint that i just smoked

 

DAMMIT lynsey, use sentences and punctuation and paragraphs. I am blaming you for my lack of being able to read this thread.

 

hah . i take full responsibilty for my grammatical laziness

 

that and the comments are just to damn long!!!

 

its my thread fucker