Hey I am new here.....I actually signed up so I could post this! Well, is it cheating if a girl kisses another girl and she is in a relationship with a guy? I told my bf the other week that I want to kiss a girl and he said he is fine with it, but if it was a guy he would leave. Why is it okay for me to kiss a girl and not a guy? I don't get it, I asked a couple of guys this and they answer the same way.
Of course he's fine with it! If he tells you that he'll only forgive you if you can watch next time, kick him in the balls....
Kissing a girl is on a different plain than a guy. A guy can draw paralells to another guy, but a girl is something only females can experience. It would be a bummer if you liked it so much that you gave up guys entirely for it..I've seen that happen... But no, it's not cheating to me either...
Cheating is doing something sexual with someone other than your bf or gf without them knowing/approving. If he doesn't care, then it's not really cheating. So, kissing on a girl i think would still be considered cheating, but since he doesn't mind then I guess it doesn't matter.
If he says he is fine with it, I can hardly call it cheating. To "cheat" is to act in a manner that betrays; he gave you consent, so smootch away!
I dont think its righ i mean its still some one else other wise then your partner you are supposed to be commited to. If he wanted to go out and kiss another guy would you think its cheating? I mean come on evey one sees things different its just my opinion. If your with some one why woul you want to kiss some one else of either sex if you are happy in your relationship?
He didn't mind because he didn't feel threatened by you kissing another girl. He probably thinks theres something he can give you that another woman can't.
why would you ask us? youre the only one who knew what the kiss meant to you, which determines whether it was cheating or not. if you kissed her and felt passion and excitement, then yes it was cheating and youre bisexual. lol i know its not so cut and dry but thats how i see it.
Okay well here's my story ....... at one point of my life almost a year ago i went out with this guy and i kissed a girl just messing around and being silly and he got REALLY REALLY REALLY pissed about it when i told him and he blew it way out of porportion.... then ..... barely 2 weeks later after giving me this whole spewl about how i kissed someone else HE GOES AND KISSES MY BEST FRIEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AND HE WASNT JUST DOING IT TO GET BACK AT ME OR ANYTHING HE LIKED HER!! then i gave him the EXACT same lecture that i got except it was different because i didnt have any feelings for the girl when i kissed her but he actually had feelings for sarah. now i realize how much of an asshole he is .... i think im going to find a post where i can really really bitch about all of the horrible things he did to me i think i need to let it all out ......
I've never understood why guys don't on the whole mind about girls kissing other girls. I think it's cheating and wouldn't kiss anyone else male or female if I was in a relationship. To me if you want to kiss someone else enough to actually do it them you can't really be totally happy in your relationship. I'm not saying that I'm never attracted to anyone else and never want to kiss anyone else....but I would never actually act on those feelings
