For the guys: do you like to make the first move or have her make the first move?

Personally, I always make the guy make the first move cause while I'm conversationally blunt and forthcoming, when it comes to physical touch I'm very shy at first. But I've been very curious about this for a while.

 

Well it depends. Are we talking about a pick up at a club or bar or do you mean in the bedroom?

 

At my age, I'm tired of being the "hunter." I'd rather be the "prey."

-- Skeeter

 

boys.. you are all so lazy .

girls have to do all the work..

 

I'll say I prefer the girl making the first move as it defies the common belief that a guy has to make the first move. I like the girl taking charge, turns me on big time!

 

You can say that again.
Most of the time I have to make the move, whether it be hooking up with someone or asking them out, there are the occasional few that have the balls to do it themselves.
For once I would like a guy to actually have the balls to ask me out properly.
Is it really that hard. Do we girls really confuse you that much? I mean honestly, how many signs do we need to give out before you can tell we like you? (dont have to actually answer those questions)

 

I like making the first move because normally the guy doesn't but it would be nice if the guy was assertive.

 

I love assertive men, because I, myself, am very assertive, so it would be nice to have someone take control once in awhile.

 

I'm talking in general. Any kind of first move whether it be the first kiss, asking someone out on a date, or trying to hook up. Any move that turns it from a platonic situation to a non platonic situation.

 

Laziness has nothing to do with it, in my case. I'm no longer willing to risk getting snubbed.

-- Skeeter