Multiple orgasms?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by -=DBCF=-, Jun 28, 2005.

  1. -=DBCF=-

    -=DBCF=- Member

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    When i give my gf oral she seems to become uninterested a little bit after her first orgasm. I've tried kissing back up her body and waiting about 10 minutes before going down again, but she'll still be uninterested. are there any tips to help me get her to have multiple orgasms?
     
  2. RetroGroove_Grrl

    RetroGroove_Grrl I'm a big girl now

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    Maybe she cant have them. I'm a bit the same.. .I usually just wanna eat chocolate and roll over and go to sleep... why not try not letting her cum?
     
  3. hiro

    hiro pursue it

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    Multiple orgasms kind of happen on their own. Nothing sparks it for me, it just happens.
     
  4. SkeeterVT

    SkeeterVT Member

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    Most women don't reach their sexual peak until their mid-30s. I've frankly never heard of girls in their teens having multiple orgasms. So unless your girlfriend is an older woman, you're barking up the wrong tree if you expect your girlfriend to have them.

    -- Skeeter
     
  5. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    sometimes girls just don't have multiples, or don't have them with regularity. Have you talked to her about it? Maybe she's too sensitive, or has become temporarily desensitized from so much stimulation. ASK her about it, don't just talk to random internet people
     
  6. shadowd_dreamr

    shadowd_dreamr Senior Member

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    i think your girl friend is probably a sensitive type..
    after one orgasim it hurts to even touch the clit.. maybe thats just me..
     
  7. Wicked Penetration

    Wicked Penetration Member

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    Some guys can have multiples... well its more like "pseudo-multiples" but its all about getting to the edge and pulling back. Feels amazing but its hard to do multiple times.
     
  8. Davino

    Davino Member

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    I can help you!
     
  9. HighBlueSkies

    HighBlueSkies Member

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    multiple O's just aren't possible in some women.

    just be happy you are getting laid =)
     
  10. SkeeterVT

    SkeeterVT Member

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    Enjoy your multiple orgasms while you're still young and able to have them. Once you reach MY age, you'll be lucky if you can come a second time, let alone a third, fourth or fifth. :&

    -- Skeeter
     
  11. cmvalwatseka

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    My gf is 23 and she doesn't like me to continue to go down on her once she has gotten off. She says its too sensitive. But she will have multiples (sometimes) while having sex after a good oral session.
     
  12. Wicked Penetration

    Wicked Penetration Member

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    You just have to keep practicing :p
     
  13. shadowd_dreamr

    shadowd_dreamr Senior Member

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    :confused:

    explain??
     
  14. soaringeagle

    soaringeagle Senior Member

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    actualy i doubt you can
    some girls obly have multiples with girls, most guys just arent enough in touch with the female body to get them there
    perhaps if shes willing & interested you could concider letying her explore the feminine touch..or..learn to do it in a more feminine way
    thats just my experience..having had no problem giving multiples to women who had never had any..or never had any with a man.
     
  15. Hacker

    Hacker Vescere Bracis Meis

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    True. Some women have multiple orgasms, and others build to one BOOMING orgasm and they are spent. I have a girlfriend (not in a sexual way) that has multiples and very easily... and the wifey builds and has one big one. Every woman is different. Don't feel that one way is better than the other. If they are happy, then no worries!
     
  16. amber

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    I'm one of those girls that can only have one. I've never had a multiple orgasm. And after one wonderful built up orgasm (which is quite hard for me to attain also) I'm done and don't like it when my man keeps going, kinda have to push him off and then I'm ready to curl up and go to sleep.
     
  17. Weeble

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    I have only once in my life time ever had multiple orgasms from sex. I also get a sensitive clit to the point that it hurts and makes my body convulse if it's touched. However, I have found that sex after a clitoral orgasm can give me a second very small orgasm which is nice.

    I have a lot of sexual issues. I can only get off from vaginal stimulation while on top. The one time I had multiples I was on bottom and had been having sex for nearly two hours. I've also learned that different positions can help stimulate a girls g-spot differently. Although they are in similar spots, an inch can be a lot when it comes to hitting the right spot.

    My suggestion is to take it slow. Don't let her cum if you go down on her. Bring her to almost the edge and then stop. Make out with her, play with her nipples, let her calm down first. Then experiment with different positions.

    In my own experience I have learned that sometimes the best sex I'd had, I'd never actually orgasmed from the sex. Have sex with her, don't get her off, enjoy your time first and then manually stimulate her until she cums. It's not always true that the guy has to wait until after she is satisfied. Most girls don't care as long as you are man enough to take care of her if you get off first.
     
  18. Dyermaker

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    After you eat her out, start having sex with her while she holds a powerful electric plug-in vibrator on her clit. A POWERFUL ONE THAT PLUGS IN!!!!
    (Give her a minute or two to come down after her oral orgasm because she is still very sensitive)
     
  19. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    When my husband gives me oral and I have an orgasm, I get extremely sensitive down there to the point where it would be excruiating for him to try to give me another oral orgasm. I can have multiple orgasms when it comes to having actual sexual intercourse, but not oral.
     
  20. Penny

    Penny Supermoderaginaire

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    Multiple orgasms happen to me all the time... :)
     

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