i have a problem satsifying my boyfriend, help!

when ever i give my b/f head, he loses interest and an erection..........anyone have any thing to help me, make it better for him?

 

Don't assume it's your problem. I think (especially with sex) you'd best describe it as "our problem". Talk about it. If you're both honest and willing to make it better, you'll come to your own answer.

 

ask him to masturbate for you, so you can see what he does to pleasure himself, where is sensitive spots are

Use your hands as well... stroke his shaft while licking the head, play with his balls, put a little pressure and rub against his perineum (skin between balls and anus)

Ask him why he goes soft, if he's done this before, if you're too rough or too soft, what he wants you to do differently (so long as it's within your comfort levels)

find some online guides about fellatio. www.clitical.com and www.literotica.com have some good ones, though they are aimed at 18+ crowds

Try a mint before hand. Try putting some chocolate sauce and licking it alllll off of him.


But my biggest advice would be to just talk to him about it. Each person is different, has slightly different erotic spots, different turn ons. Maybe he'd find it really erotic to see you in just a bra and panties, or fully dressed, or completely naked. Maybe he wants more eye contact, or less. Maybe he wants you to finger his butt, or finger yourself while performing. TALK TO HIM!

 

Ask him about it, not us. Maybe you are going at it too hard?

 

I had the same problem. Bless her for trying, but she just couldn't do it, and I'd lose interest. I didn't want to tap her on the shoulder and tell her I didn't like what she was doing. So please ask him, tell him to be honest and let you know what you can do differently.

 

Well, as long as you dong rip it to shreds with your teeth it should be fine. Than again I am very sensitive to the slightest of pressure.

 

He probably is getting nervous, as weird as that sounds (You wouldn't think that if a girl has her mouth around his penis a guy would still be nervous, but hey). You might have to keep applying more pressure and using your hands in addition to your mouth. I know that sometimes for me a mix of hands and mouth is really nice, and sometimes a girl using only her mouth isn't getting anywhere lol

 

don't give him head then. do u like it so much?

 

Is he also 15? Probably too busy thinking about level 10 of his new playstation game to care about what your doing.

You won't get any respect from a young pup for giving head at 15 and that's exactly what's lacking here. If you want to keep sucking it with no respect, by all means... suck away, but accept the consequences.

 

Funny that's what I was thinking. At fifteen...Talking about it is pretty much out cause most 15yo guys can't even ask a girl out let alone tell her what makes him arroused. I would say if you can't have a good talk about it without the embarassment then you should probably just stick to 2nd base for now.

Besides, speaking from experience it is a lot more enjoyable to get or give oral when you are older...it's just akward at 15. Good luck to you though...I hope it all cums together

 

no, he is 18

 

no, he is 18

 

no, he is 18

 

no, he is 18

 

thank you all for ur suggestions, oo and he isn't 15, he is 18...........but he still plays playstation when he is high

 

Umm we got the message babe, the first time hehe

Stop giving him head, perhaps ask him if he even likes it? I didntlike getting oral when i was 15, or even 18, it takes time and a good lover to settle your nerves

 

i talked to him about it and i just wasn't cutting it, so i gave him a hand job for the first time and he really enjoyed that so i've found something i'm really good at lol

 

he he...my husband is almost 30 and he still plays playstation when he is high too.

Congratulations on finding something that works!

 

double post

 

Well, I suspected he might be older which is why I asked. I knew you would most likely be thrilled that he was older also, which makes my next point a bit more clear. Sounds like he's got himself a little puppy dog on a leash who's always seeking his approval and willing to please him and he loves it. Why would you want get him off so desperately anyway? You have nothing else to offer?

Any 18 year old who is going to date a 15 year old isn't looking for equality. He wants to be idolized so he seeks out a younger, more naive girl who will fall for his bullshit tactics. Any girl his age will see right through him and he knows it. You may not think 3 years is much, but think about it. Would you date a 12 year old boy? Of course not, but you'll probably say yes just to nullify my point, but I know better.

I don't know how Baby can congratulate you on getting off an 18 year old. Yeah, that's rocket science!