If a friend cheats on another friend...

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by John221, Jun 27, 2005.

  1. John221

    John221 Senior Member

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    ...what would you do?
     
  2. dhs

    dhs Senior Member

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    One of my 'old' really good friends repeatedly cheated on the girls he dated. I wasn't necessarily friends with his girl friends, but it made me lose a lot of respect for him. I didn't say anything to the girlfriends, but I always voiced to him that I didn't approve of what he was doing. I later noticed more and more tendencies of his that lead me to believe that he is a selfish prick - we're not friends anymore.
     
  3. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    encourage them to be honest and if they can't than open their eyes to it without directly medeling.
     
  4. dhs

    dhs Senior Member

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    That is indeed a tough one. What does the mother think?
     
  5. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    depends on which friends
    but most likely I would tell
     
  6. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    no, it will alter the child's sense of belonging. Whenever there's kids involved you have to prioritize them above any adults.
     
  7. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

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    mind my own business...

    i find if you get involved it will more likely come back onto you...

    if it was family, thats a different story..
     
  8. Xac

    Xac Visitor

    Very tough, all i know is that sort of thing would be soul destroying.
     
  9. Faerie

    Faerie Peachy

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    My friend was cheating on her boyfriend and he called me cause he thought something was going on with her.. So I told him without telling him.. I just kept telling him that he needed to talk to her and that there were some serious problems.. She found out that he talked to me and she was pissed at me.. Oh well.. she was only not telling him cause she needed him to stick around cause he paid half the rent.. I have lost so much respect for her... But it sucked getting put on the spot by her boyfriend cause this happened once before (he gave her a second chance) and I kept my mouth shut and later he found out I knew and so he knew I would know again... Im happy their not together anymore he deserved better than her
     
  10. vegetable_man

    vegetable_man Member

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    I agree..... its none of your bisness and it's usualy best not to get involved...... thats what i think ...... eventulay they will find out on there own or from another freind......
     
  11. jamie613

    jamie613 jamie

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    I dont believe in cheating myself but I have a friend that has been married for over ten years and let me tell you he has been with alot of different woman since he's been married but i dont dear say anything to his wife about it but i do tell him all the time if your not happy with what you got move on.
     
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