Done. With all of it. Love, sex, all of it. Either I'm not properly equipped or I'm not willing to accept the things that one has to accept to be with someone. There was one person left (in my past) that could change my opinion of men. He failed. So I'm done. I don't care if it feels like it may be different or my interest is peaked, I will never go there again because I now know that it always ends the same. Its a relief. I'm not built for getting hurt. The worse mistake I ever made was believing that love had a place in my life, that I could be with someone. I am meant to be alone. I accept it
they weren't me. I've done it for years. One guy last summer made me rethink my aversion to caring. Its been a year. I tried. I'm going back to the old me....on steriods
Ok this is what I say. There is no such thing as done. There is always a guy out there who really is nice and kind and good and etc. Some one willing to sacrifice himself for the one he loves (And vice versa). I do believe in true love.... Than again I am a hopeless romantic who reads way too many romance novels all the while never had a girl friend in my life....... Go figure.
Boy, you've had some bad experiences it seems. Trust me when I say there are guys out there who are full of fun, love and *gasp* aren't bad. I'm one of them (or at least I hope I can consider myself one), so I talk from experience. They're out there. I'm just amazed that there are so many assholes out there too
life IS a bed of roses - just when you think things are going fine you get stabbed to death by thorns
DaBeastThatWalks' post was a bit harsh but i agree with : i dont really see the point of this thread anyway, if its not to make pple say "dont give up". so yea, dont give up.
i dont think there's any point to this thread, pretty much like most threads in here she wrote what she wanted to and will do as she want to, whenever
Are you aware that by saying this, you're telling the whole board here that every single male member on this board is an unthinking, uncaring asshole? Are you prepared to make that statement? If you really believe that, that's fine--though being a male member myself, I would obviously disagree with you. Just realize that if you had a moment of "Well, maybe not EVERYbody on the forum", then imagine how much bigger the whole damn world is.
Guy's are assholes (I should know ... I am one!), especially when sex is involved so you may wanna try getting more guy friends. Don't ask me to explain how but it may reaquaint you with guy's better sides without any relationship/sex in the way and then take it from there.
I think there is two ways of looking at Love.. Humans are animals, greedy selfish creatures. When it comes down to the crunch people will do what they want and whats best for them without thinking about others. Sex is wonderful if you're in love..but lust is often that bit stronger. This is how I feel most of the time. Its sad but true. or.. You can think well, okay this is true. BUT... we were also given these feelings which make us want more from life. And occasionally people get joy from making others happy. Its all debatable I suppose.. Love does exist, I think its rare but its out there. Eh.. I hope that made some sense. Its up to you whether you give up or not, I know I've wanted to many time but I know I never will just because I love love too much! Hope you end up happy, alone or in love..
