is it possible to find true love at 18?.............or am i going to fall victim to loosing this girl to only being a Teenage "fling" The way this girl makes me feel, i can not explain. I can honestly say i do truly love her. My day is what she makes it.............With out her, i would be lost,,,,ive only been with her under a year, known her for 5 or more.....yet i feel as if i can spend the rest of my life with her by my side. What i feel is like an un controable ...........i dont knbow what......just thinking about her puts a smile on my face. and i couldnt imagine having to live a day where her voice wasnt the first thing i heard in the morning........i wish i could give her the world but im still only a "kid"
If you love her let her go, if she doesn't come back then she's not in truly in love w/you! In other words if she's going away to college or something, you'll be able to tell how much she is in love w/you by not fooling around w/someone else!
Love is not deceiving someone, being selfish, keeping things from them. It's about truth, honesty, and being real with the person. If you truly love her I'd make a few changes (regarding to another thread). I'd do some soul searching and find out what it is you really want. Do you want her or do you want to keep hurting her by keeping things from her? She may not have any idea about things now but one day the truth always comes and when it does it could devastate her.
If you're meant to be together in the end, you will know. Just go with the flow. At the end of the day, if it did end you'll never forget your first "love"
It's very possible to have the whole 'love' thing at age 18.. Ever heard that ol' saying 'all good things must come to an end'?.. Be careful and keep your head on straight.. I know about being in love and the emotions you bring into it.. If you love her, hold on to her.. If she feels the same and it really is meant to be (nothing in life is consistent, other than math) then it will be.. I'll always remember my first love.. Siigh, his name is J.. *sniffs*
To be honest, it won't be easy. I think people arepretty restless around 18 to early 20's. I suppose its possible, but I've never known anyone to get together at 18 permanantly. I have a feeling that many people who do end up feeling trapped, or like they are missing out on something. Good luck though, prove me wrong
My parents met at 15...and they've been together for 30 years (26 of Marriage) So...it's possible...I know A LOT of people that have been (as in still are) together since they were 18 and under...but I also know a few people who were engaged at 18-25 and then everything fell appart... GOOD LUCK!
My sister started dating her now husband when she was 15. So it can definetly work, just work harder. It's always gonna be hard and I think the younger you are the worse it gets.
its probly not gonna work out to be honest. most girls dont start thinkin serious like that until later on screw
yea...well both my sisters who are now 25 and 27 married there high school sweethearts........me on the other hand being 21 doesnt really think im gonna meet "my soul mate" any time soon. So my point? It's possible so just seee where the relationship takes you. And uhh btw....i kno this isnt the most appropiate place to ask this but....how do u become a memeber???????
Well, I'm 18 and I know I've found my true love, but I have been trying for a good long time and have been with plenty enough guys to know what I want. I think it all boils down to maturity, rather than age. It makes me feel a bit wary, seeing as I'm about to enter the world of a university and will have so many people and opportunities opened to me, but I'm so in love, the possibility of even blinking in another male's direction is small. Two of my really good friends started dating when they were 13 and 14 and they got married last year at the ages of 18 and 19. They've been married a year now and I can see them together for many many more. Sometimes 18 year olds aren't mature enough to know what they want, but sometimes they are. There are many cases of high school sweethearts being together forever. Don't be discouraged by your age, if you feel it, enjoy it. It's a rarity. James821, you have to have 50 posts and be registered for a little while (I'm not sure how long) before you become a member.
