alright i was with my b/f at his place sleepin in the bed....when he woke me up in the middle of the night n started kissin me wantin me to have sex wit him.....n i didnt really wanna have sex wit him because i was really tired.....so he pined my hands kinda above my head n started pushin his self inside me really hard....n it kinda hurt n he was being really ruff...n this was going on for about 10 minutes...so i was like "can you please stop ur really being an asshole" still he kept on.....so i was like "i just said no n u just gonna iggnore me n keep on"......soo than he stop n was like "what chu tryna say, im tryna rape u"...an i was like "i aint say that but if thas what chu thinkin...you tell me".......so than he just left...n wouldnt talk to me for like 3 days.....n than when i see him he just acted like nothing never happened n that bothers me cause i wanna bring it up...cause i cant just ignore what he did..so its like wtf? iono how to deal wit this type of situation
it sounds like rape, i mean you said no and he wouldnt stop. you need to dump his ass and like dude(sry forgot your name) said find someone who will respect you
I would dump his ass, too. Your boyfriend is supposed to respect you. And, yes, if you don't want to have sex, and he forces himself on you, IT IS RAPE. Even if he is your boyfriend. Get out before he gets abusive.
Jesus fuckin' christ I just love it when girls post shit like this, proving what a total fucking ASSHOLE they're with, and then ask if it's a problem and if they should or should not dump the guy -- and then there's guys like me, who DO respect a woman and DO treat her well and DO express love and affection and what do we get? Left behind. If you can't figure out that a piece of shit like you were with in your post is not worth staying with, then I dunno, maybe you deserve him?? For fuck's sake, DUMP the SHIT out of him. He's a motherfucking RAPIST, and you'll be lucky if you never get treated WORSE than that. Maybe next time he'll get a little angry at your resistance, and bash your mouth a little to put you in your place... -Jeffrey
Yes the remark was made about why women stay with guys like that? Why do they get abused, and call the cops and then they stay with the guy? Is there somekind of hold on the women or are they just feeling like it is their fault? If someone treats you wrong once, it will happen again. Get out and find someone who will treat you nice. Take the advice of the old song about getting an ugly person to marry you. They will try their darndest about pleasing you where usually a good looking person won't.
What an ass. You don't deserve that. Find someone who respects you. It's horrible that he doesn't even talk to you just because you didn't want to fuck him. You deserve more respect then that.