right this is a problem with my friend shell, she is gay she says but 2morrow she has a date with this bloke shane? her and her shag g/f has a arguement yesterday and no she is going back to men, its fair enough if she is bi but one moment she is with women one with men. if i ask her if she is bi she says not 'cause i dont like men' fair enough but she is playing men again women. and with her partners i normally end up being mates with them and i get the where is she, why doesnt she like me, i just say talk to her, im NOT her, im nothing like her. its nasty and her poor mum is so confused as well cause one moment her daughter is gay the next she is straight and shagging some bloke. i personally think she is bi but she wont accept it. she is going to get herself in alot of shit soon, if she screws with the wrong people. (no pun intended)
I don't think the most important thing is to put this woman in a category. If she's shagging both men and women, she certainly sounds like exactly what bisexual is. Frankly, I'm more concerned about what wiggy is saying about this woman's partners and about how this woman's mother is responding to it all. How you treat the other people in your life is what matters most. Which box you put yourself in (or don't) isn't the big deal here.
