Welcome to the forum Snice2. It's interesting to hear that you mostly tell the guys you date early on that you are willing to have sex with them. My experience with girls is that they mostly don't talk about that on the first date. I think you are right about it can calm a guy down a bit... thenagain, I wonder how I would react when a girl would tell me she was willing to fuck me, after taking the flowers I brought her as a gift on her doorstep.
I feel bad even touching my girlfriend when she's high, even just a kiss, despite that I know she would if she wasn't (and even though marijuana doesn't impare your judgement the same way as drinking, but neither of us drink so yeah)...it's just like...I don't know, it feels weird haha Of course I'm exagerating a bit, but honestly, I wouldn't touch a girl that was drunk and I would never fuck on the first date (I like how I answered the entire point of this topic at the very end haha)
You have to go with the flow on that one....let things develop naturally. Whether you put out or not on the first date, if the guy's a shit, he'll stay a shit, and you'll be glad to get rid of him.....
Simply? Make sure you think clearly about it first. Then if you both decide to, take precautions and have fun. Don't be bullied or forced. If you feel you are being forced, don't be afraid to screamed your lungs out (or knee him where it hurts) Sex should be fun not an obligation.
Indeed!Feel free to express you self if you both feel atracted from each other,dont loose the moment!!!
I am not into the whole dating thing. more like one night stand and then never see the guy again, type thing.