fuck on the first date?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by shadowd_dreamr, Jun 27, 2005.

  1. shadowd_dreamr

    shadowd_dreamr Senior Member

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    Have you ever fucked on the first date?
    did the person follow up after?

    How long do you think a person should wait
    before having sex with another???..


    ****I have had sex on the first date.. It wasnt pleasant...
    And no, he didnt ever contact me again after...Damn one night stands.. story of my life..****
     
  2. jo_k_er_man

    jo_k_er_man TBD

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    yea... almost all my relationships started with sex on the first night... they'd linger for a couple months and then i'd get bored because i realized thats all the relationship would be about and the sex would get boring because most of them werent into trying new things... or being more than a sub.. bah... damn boring sex lives some women have... but now sex takes a seat back to everything else i need a woman to fullfil me with.. like intellect and personality.. sex can wait... i'm actually pullin the celabacy card until i find a woman worth actually being with.. instead of just lookin to get my dick wet
     
  3. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    maybe you should stop putting out so easily.... no more one night stands that way
     
  4. shadowd_dreamr

    shadowd_dreamr Senior Member

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    haha yea, I guess that would make sence hey?
     
  5. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    yup, so do these assholes get you drunk first? or do they just get you when you're horny?
     
  6. shadowd_dreamr

    shadowd_dreamr Senior Member

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    I get very horny when I am drunk..
    So yes to all to all of the above.
     
  7. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    ah... I see... try not to get so drunk on first dates, I guess
    I don't think I could fuck a chick when she was drunk.... unless I was drunk enough to even it out.... I don't know how drunk that would be though
     
  8. shadowd_dreamr

    shadowd_dreamr Senior Member

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    yea,
    its not like I get piss-faced on first dates lol.
    I am just saying that I am a honry drunk...

    I have done it once while I was pissed (lost my virginity)...
    and I didnt feel a thing ;).

    Most guys that I have met dont care if a chick is drunk.
    They will take advantage of them if they say its ok.
    You sound like you have a head on your sholders ;).
     
  9. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    no my heart's just bigger than my dick (not dissin' my dick or anything here)
     
  10. Green

    Green Iconoclastic

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    I wouldn't kiss on the first date unless she asked.
     
  11. SkeeterVT

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    When I was younger and exclusively gay (I've been bi for the last 12 years), sex on the first date was pretty much de rigeur. Among gay men (especially those under 30), it still is -- and it probably always will be.

    If there's one thing that I've learned as I've grown older, it's that men -- regardless of their age and regardless of whether they're gay, straight or bi -- are always thinking about sex WHENEVER they date, even if they don't put those thoughts into actual practice.

    --Skeeter
     
  12. samson

    samson Hepcat

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    Have you ever fucked on the first date?
    Im a guy, so thats a yes


    did the person follow up after?
    Yes again, and I am still with her, more than ten years later!


    How long do you think a person should wait
    before having sex with another???..

    At least long enough to smoke a cigarette!
     
  13. kissMeImPolish

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    I fucked on the first date, and didnt see the girl again, of course I didnt really want to in most cases.
    greg
     
  14. Hippievixen

    Hippievixen Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    awww, that was cold.

    if it feels good, do it.

    if the chemistry is strong and it feels right, why not?!
     
  15. Kabbalist

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    It really turns me on when a girl is drinking too much on a first date, makes a bit of a slutty impression.
     
  16. Kabbalist

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    Some people got value, that's why not.
     
  17. stonr

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    never done it but i assume the rlation ship would get boring after a bit but who am i to sa bieng this has never happened to me. but if i chick gets drunk i willnot do any thing unless im just as shitfaced or more shitfaced than her. bieng drunk also makes me horny.
     
  18. wanderer

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    Yes, me and a girl I met on the net fucked on the first date. It was a beautiful experience for both of us. We stayed together for 6 months. In other relationships I normally didn't fuck on the first date.
     
  19. vegetable_man

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    You know..... I'd leave it up to the girl.... if she wanted to then i would if not thats cool to..... but it tells me a lot about the girl... and if i do fuck her on the first date .... then that relationship wont last to long..... but if we wait .... well that kinda gives me some insentive to get to know her and see what she's all about..... unfortunetly most of the girls I've been involved with didn't have much going on
     
  20. snice2

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    This is my first post. Do I fuck on the first date? - Yes !! Before agreeing to a date I've usually got an idea of what to expect of the guy (sometimes gal). If it's a young guy I know what's on his mind. I don't want him fretting, babbling and confusing me and himself all evening and so I say early on I'm open to have sex if he wants to later on. That way I stay in control - then and later on. There have been a few times when my date has chosen not to 'go all the way' which is fine with me. Yes, I usually hear from my dates again!! I may or may not want to see them again!! Mostly I do. In having sex early on at least I avoid multiple calls trying to get another date just to eventually persuade me to have sex. I've been active since I as 15 - I'm 21 now - and I've had quite a few partners. I don't feel I'm 'easy' cause I don't date everyone that asks, but if I do go out with them I look forward to checking them out!! I guess I just like having sex!! Also often I have it on the 2nd date as well !! (I should add that I am absolutely OCD about safe sex, condoms, hygeine etc. Never had a health problem/STD and don't intend to). Thanks for reading.
     

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