Ok now their are two ways to really get a girl...Obviously it begins off with a good first impression and blah blah...But after you meet them what do the girls like better? Im more of the nice funny guy...Too nice funny guy!!! Im always really nice and shit to the girl im trying to get, and always make stupid jokes...And get them to laugh Is it better to be an all around nice guy or to start off as the ass hole? I hear that being an ass hole at the start and then making it up with being the nice guy gets you the girl more!!! Lol...So which is better, to be the ass hole to the nice guy or the nice guy always...It seems like being the nice guy always gets u a lot of frieneds....but what else!!! Thanks for the answers !
it really depends on the girl...lots of girls like assholes because of the way they were brought up and other reasons. And girls also like funny guys...what girl are you looking to attract?
I like nice guys. Why would you want to be an asshole? - I mean really..... If a guy can be nice, funny, and hold a good conversation I'm all about it! Good luck!
RE: I like nice guys. Why would you want to be an asshole? - He's looking for something other than "friend" e.g. something physical.
Shaba - That's a gross simplification of the issues. To put it oversimply, if you wanna hold her purse while she shops for shoes, be a nice guy. If you want passion and then freedom to pursue someone else, be a jerk. Ride a Harley and smack her around and she'll obsess about you her entire life. I won't go that route. I simply abstain.
He didn't say that??? He said that he was trying to get a girl and asked what would be the best approch......
Oh fair enough then. If you want to be "friends" with a girl and nothing more, listen to her stories, hold her purse while she goes shopping, listen attentively to her complaints about various things, drive her to where she wants to go, etc.
I'm no expert on getting girls ; in fact i'm pretty useless but I know that Girls like humour & romance.................. .............& muscular hunks with blond-hair,bronzed fake tan ,with 12 credit cards,a 4 by 4,keep saying: "Oh ya gosh,hur hur" ,& workout every ten minutes.
i hear ya man... i have the shittiest time gettin girls... not that its because im a turn off to them... but because i cant fuckin read them... its tough to tell if they like you and i cant figure that out... and well im one of them people thats afraid of rejection... so i almost always never end up saying anything... and then find out later down the line, when they're with someone else... or im with someone else.. that they actually liked me grr... damn women... just come out and say it!!!
I know its such an overused statement....but in all honesty, sense of humor. If you can get that girl to laugh alot, then you're golden. Just be yourself mainly. If you try to act like what you THINK this girl wants in a guy, then all you're doing is basically lying to her (trust me, I've done that) and when she discovers that, it won't end well. Just be yourself, and make them laugh.
1.Don't be a jerk but don't be a wussy pushover and let women push you around and walk all over you. 2.Be funny but be just a tad bit cocky ie tease her and bust on her a bit. For instance say something like "Your very beautiful. Too bad you're not my type".Make sure that its obvious that you are joking. 3. Don't kiss up to her or over compliment her all the time. If you do so you come across as a wussy butt kisser.One compliment per date. 4. Don't go over board with fancy expensive date and gifts. Wait a minimum of one month before you get her any gifts. Trying to buy a woman's affection doesn't work because women subconsciously see it as manipupative behaviour and are turned off. 5.For the first date take her out to some cool coffeshop(NOT Starcrooks oops I mean Starbucks) for some conversation. 6. Learn to take the lead and be a take charge kinda guy. When you ask a girl out DO NOT I repeat DO NOT ask her "What do you want to do/where do you want to go? Women are turned off by guys that constantly defer to them. Wait 3-5 dates before asking for her input. 7.Women love self confident guys so learn to be self confident. 8.Be bit of a challenge to her. 9.Phone numbers...Don't say can I get your phone # or can I get your email? Ask if she has email then say "write it down". While she is in the middle of writing down her email say "Write down your phone # too.". If sahe doesn't have email than say ask Whats your phone #? 10. Women are attracted to certain traits and characteristics. Unfortunately many women are attracted to jerks because jerks often posses those traits and characteristics. Your job is to cultivate those traits and characteristics while still remaining a gentleman. Best of luck to ya man.
Wake Up to the real world, this isn't frigen Hollywood...Being yourself, normally won't work, cause most of the time, your normal self is predictable, boring, and weird!!! Everybody changes who they are at first, and gradually over time shows the person who they realy are! These are approaches to take when meeting girls...In other words, how to get the girl hooked onto you, then you start showing the real you...By the way AT98BooBoo, Thanks for that...That was actually helpful unlike the rest of the people here The fact of the matter is I get my share of girls, but I want it all ! Like everyone else obviously...And being yourself just doesn't cut it, so look for different apporaches, and try it...Of course for that 1 in 10 that being yourself works....good for you..You have "The Touch"...But for those of you who swear ur urself around a girl, when u go to bed after the first date, think of what u did and what was different about it then you normally act wit "ur boys"
