My story will prolly resemble many others...but I could really use a piece of advice. There is me, and there is this guy I'm working with. I know him since the end of May this year and I gradually started to fancy him during the last month. I tried to show him but I don;t wanna push it too far...I smile, I joke, you know. I even invited him to lunch a couple of times and we went but nothing happened. I kissed him on the cheek too... I mean sometimes when I touch him he seems to be happier than usual but there is no certainty... He doesn't have any initiative, physically speaking. Could he be shy when it comes to this? I really like him but sometimes I just don't know what to do. I don't wanna be THAT DIRECT, because I'm pretty shy too. I'm getting tired and frustrated. Tell me... whatta f should I do? I can't just ... damn.
If you have a good female friend who also knows him, she could make some hints to him and if that does not work, i'd say forget it for now. actually, i just recently did that for someone and it didnt work. many guys just prefer to stick to a particular type.
yeah, u're right. the truth is that none of my friends know him but i'm just holding on because i'm not sure if he really likes me but is too shy or something... if i knew for sure he's not interested I'd quit in a sec. anyway, i think i'll just drop it i can't stay so stressed forever. it's not my problem if he has no balls.
