How do girls get girls?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Bassplayerjojo, Jun 14, 2004.

  1. high on life

    high on life Member

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    hippy smurf im lovin your way of thinkin!!!

    that would work great there would be no need to mess around going for meals/pics, talk about shit for a full nite and realise she/he is not the person you thought!
    this way its straight to the point no bullshit!!

    mines hanging on the back of my car!!!!!!
    cool pic btw;)
     
  2. ArtLoveMusic

    ArtLoveMusic Senior Member

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    nah the taking out and exploring is the fun bit... as soon as you know them and things get comfy thats when lifes a bore. i love the meeting the new people, working them out bit :) Signs would make it a bit boring in my eyes :)
     
  3. psyche

    psyche fun for the whole family

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    wear something rainbow, queers flock to that sort of thing. at a phish concert it might not stand out so much though. if you meet a girl and you think there's some chemistry just flirt and maybe eventually ask if she's single, then ask her to go back to your tent with ya once you two are fairly comfortable. i basically just paraphrased what everyone else said, but there's not really any other way to go about it. girls are tricky sometimes, but if you make lots of eye contact and she seems to dig ya go for it, you've got nothing to lose. have fun :)
     
  4. Bonky

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    i basiclly agree with what's written above. I can't explain it, but somehow if you're looking for a girl then you can see that some girl is looking the same. i don't know how, you just feel it. my advice is to show you want it by flirting and if you feel that the girl u like doesn't feel the same don't push.
     
  5. Manolao

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    my dear.. you got the point!!!!

    and.. another very useful status sign... 'single girl engaged but possible to have a crush on you, sorry if afterwards I make a mess 'coz I am confused but I do love you too'....

    this could have avoided me from the last situations... happened 3 times in 2 months that I started flirting with engaged girls... and then... even if we started kissing and maybe much more.. then they started to get confused and feel guilty.. uhmmmm :confused:
     
  6. Miss_Tambourine_Girl

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    doh.. Manolao..
    lack of pussy... damn bad thing!
     
  7. Hippy_Smurf

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    I may well have to start producing signs! Laminate them and everything...hehe.

    It got me to thinking - I'm not exactly one for 'beating around the bush' as it were (sorry for the innuendo...) and I prefer to let people know I'm interested when I am, but people often think it's odd that I'm so straight-to-the-point about things. Whyyyy? Is there anything wrong with it?
     
  8. Manolao

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    no dear tamburine girl... not at all! :) by "flirting" I mean... many things ;)

    is in fact afterwards that they start to feel guilty.. ah... what a strange thing the monogamy! :p
     
  9. Miss_Tambourine_Girl

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    lol thats cool then man!!

    u rule ;)
     
  10. Bohemian_Child

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    have you ever flirted with and picked up a guy? do the same thing. just to a girl.
     
  11. Hippy_Smurf

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    There's less at risk when it's a guy you're trying to pick up though! It's the possible humiliation and red face from trying to get a girl who's probably straight anyway that makes it so much harder!
     
  12. Kundalini

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    This is all so true, It has been a fantasy of mine for a long time, to bring home someone for hy hubby and I to enjoy.. I just can never figure a way to start that conversation or to find a cute girl.... we are good looking, very outgoing I would think it would be easy... I have no idea what to or how to find someone willing :(
     
  13. Autentique

    Autentique wonderfabulastic

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    It's hard to get a girl. Ok.. you can flirt, but it's confusing, and it takes a lot of courage to jump at it, you might get the answer you are expecting and that's terrifying and kinda embarrasing. But what's worse is not to try. The thing that happens with me is.. I start the flirting.. but never know if are they being friendly or are they being "friendly"..

    I've only made out, like with 3 girls, and it was on a friendly kinda way, just having fun. Well one of them knew I like her, but I think she wasn't bi or a lesbian, or anything, just fooling around.

    So.. would anyone like to hook up with me?? ;) I'm in need of some girl to girl lessons...:p
     
  14. user__friendly

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    Hahaha, I completely agree Hippy_Smurf. :)
     
  15. Bro_Rific

    Bro_Rific Banned

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    People, people! Let's not over-analyze this. Girls, no matter what sexual preference they may be, enjoy a good 'ol fashioned flashing to spark their interest. *Caution* Such a flashing may not work if the flasher is over weight or over-ugly though. Use your own discretion in using this mating technique. Thanks for reading my post. Bro
     
  16. RaZoRblAdEKiSsEs

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    i strike up a convo with them. and then just kinda physically flirt with them and that usually leads to more.

    love.
    chelsea
     
  17. tripRBYday

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    Well if you feel a true connection chances are she will to. look for sign that she digs you, suggest that you do something at your site after. Smoke, drink, get to know eacht other. Don't into it expecting sex because women can sense a scoundrel. Most of all be yourself!
     
  18. Kimber

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    I remember when I started becoming "curious" about being with woman. It started at about 19ish. I didn't have a clue how to go about getting with a girl. I told myself I'll just have to wait until I'm 21 & go to a gay bar!!! About a year or so went by & I was out partying with my guy & his friend who brought us over to this stripper's apartment! We were drinking & having fun. Before I knew it the two girls led me into the bedroom. The guys tried to follow us in for a show but got kicked out immeadiately!! Needless to say my fantasy was fullfilled!! I became so infatuated with one of the girls that I was gonna leave my boyfriend for her! Shw was just into the party scene though. So I never had an actual girlfriend. We did sleep together off & on over the next three years.
    I think if you're curious, it may not happen at the Phish concert but there are plenty of other girls just as curious as you & you will get your turn. Just be a little patient & just put yourself out there & some time when your not even thinking about it, the situation will present itself to you!!
     
  19. livingwater

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    I to like girls, but the girls around my town are not my scene- Plus, few of them attract me physically...I have not been with a girl for about 2 yrs...I am exotic,young, natrually-beautiful,& bohemian and I have lately not been able to find a girl that I would desire to make love with..,I used to have something of a girlfriend but-we never made love. I have had sex w/ women before- and I desire to know what it feels like to make love with a woman..the only woman I would have ever made love too was my former close girl friend and some other women I did not get real close with- but I have the same problem finding out how to go about it as well...But, I too believe the oppertunity can present itself in due time- Patience is really a virtue
     
  20. maryjaneguitargurl

    maryjaneguitargurl I am just like you.

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    haha

    peace
    chickens
     

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