The other day me and my friend were debating whether or not she should get breast implants. I told her absolutely not that she had lovely breasts, but she said she feels uncomfortable with having small breasts. She has a 34 b, but its a full b. I guess I can see where she is coming from but in all honestly she is perfect just as she is. She says she wants them because she feels that she doesnt get enough attention from men, which I think is completely rediculous. It is much nicer to have a guy look into your eyes, then look down your shirt. Implants are too overwhelming to me, but thats just an opinion...Any thoughts?
It's not about the size of the boobs, but how you show them off...if that's the attention she really wants, she needs to start wearing lowcut shirts. It sounds like she's kinda lonely, and that this might solve her problems. Guys wanting just to bang you sucks way more than being with no one. I dunno. I'd never do it myself, and I have smaller boobs than she does.
i know as many chicks who are small brested that get attention as big brested,i think implants are pointless, looks at the risk of then and the unneed surgary and recovery you have to go though so your your brests are one sizer bigger seems totaly pointless to me.
I've told you people once and I'll say it again, no, it's a stupid idea and waste of money. And contrary to what you'd think from the media, the average bra size for a woman in the US is a B cup.
personaly speaking as a man, i find implants disgusting, & i would never give attention to someone that fake & insecure. personaly i find smaller breasts far more attractive, but for me its more important that a woman is kind, sweet, happy with who she is. the truth is also, in general the guyys who will like you for your big boobs generaly are the stupider guys who would mistreat you or cheat on you, or just give you the wrong kind of attention anyway, so my sisters i'd say be proud of your body the way it is naturaly, your beautiful ..accept that beauty..feel it from inside you..celebrate it please dont get implants..i will try not to lose respect for you if you do, i guess i understand in todays sick society why some woman do.. but beleive me when i say your breasts are beutiful just the way they are (i can say that even though i'v never seen them) someone sent me apicture of awoman whos body was litteraly 1/2 breast.. they must have been 65 pounds each, i was disgusted, not only were they ugly, but i imagined the pain she must be in carrying those around, or trying to drivewith them pressed against the wheel. why anyone would hurt theyre bodies changing them based on the stupid myh that bigger is beter is beyond me. especialy when many large breasted women end up having reduction surgery to fix major back pain proble,ms, not only re small brests far more beautiful & sexy theyre more practical too.. no need for unconfortable bras to keep u from sagging below your wasteline as you grow older, they wont get in the weigh if you play sports, the feel better to touchh & are far more responsive.. you'll get less negative attention from the idiots who beleive the bigger is better myth (if you like the whle hey baby let me lick those type attention then you need to work on self esteem, not bigger breasts) with smaller breasts your more likely to find someone who likes you for you, not for your breast size these are just my opinions, i've dated women who were bigger & smaller, i just know i find smaller far more attractive, & enjoyable
I got in trouble for my opposition to tattoos, but I will exercise my right to free speech and free opinion anyway. I think small breasts are lovely. When I look at porn and I see the artificially round breasts, I feel a natural revulsion. If your friend thinks she is not getting enough attention from guys, there might be other factors at play (maybe she is shy, is not being conversational enough, looks as if she is in a bad mood, etc.). If, to be blunt, your friend is just not very attractive overall, I am afraid getting breast implants is not the solution. Yes, some guys give a lot of attention to large breasts, especially implants. I once ended up in a strip club after I got lost in a city and decided to chill for a while. I noticed that it was typically the lower class guys giving the most attention to the most fake-looking women. I much preferred the natural look, and I saw myself a notch above most guys there. So, if your friend wants attention from superficial guys, she may get it with the implants.
I lik small boobies like a's or b's, i mean there nothing wrong with big boobies as long as there natural, i don't like the idea of implants.
i have 34 b's and i think they are just fine! i've never thought of them as too small nor has any man ever said so
i had a breast reduction 11 years ago. the bigger the boobs, the bigger the problems. i still have dents in my shoulders from bra straps and my back still bothers me (although not quite as much). after the reduction i was a c cup. i LOVED them and even wished they were just a little smaller. now after two kids i'm back up to a d (and staying, no matter how much weight i lose/gain, they don't change) which is still MUCH smaller than i used to be. but having been on the smaller side of the fence, i liked it there MUCH better than the bigger side. men who are interested in just your boobs are just that... boobs. there's no way a woman should change her body in such a dramatic way in order to get more attention from men. tell your friend to love herself as she is! it can be hard at times, but it's possible (trust me, a reduction and two kids later, i have some funky scarring on my breasts and i still think i'm good enough ). -z
my ex also had a reduction, & before the reduction she did everything she could to try to hide her breasts, stuffing them into sports bras way too tight she had severe back pain alot..but right after the swurgery, even with the frankenstein like stitches she was so happy with the new her she was flashing everyone at work its nice to see other guys in here saying they preffer smaller, makes me think not all guys are braindead creeps
i like smaller breasts. but tahts just me. i have a family member, that becasue she went through puberty so quickly and her breasts went from nothing to a high c i think, the tissue tore, and left her with misshapen breasts. so at 17 she went under the knife(aproved by the fda( i think thats the place) to have her breaests fixed, they also added implants to reshape the damaged tissues.
IMO implants and breast reduction are both a waste of money. Personally I like large areolas and noticable montgomery glands rather than the size of the boob itself. Large nipples are also quite sexy.I once saw an ad on the net for plastic srgery to reduce the size of areolas. What for? Large areolas are feminine.
Areolas are usually not so clearly defined on teenage girls but this changes as you get in to your twenties, so don't worry about it.
I know this is the easy thing to say but support her. Tell her what you think and that you care for her but is she wants them she's going to get them. Tell her in away that lets her know how stupid this is but be careful, friends can get very defensive on any subject if they feel that your telling them what to do. Sorry if that didn't help and good luck.
a quick two cents from what I, and most of the guys I'm around think on it [those being guys 18-20s] "Anything more than a handful, is just a waste." a short jean skirt, and a black spaghetti strap tank top, will get you all the male attention you can handle.
I think that I might be the only one here that likes fake ones. Of course Im also probably like most guys, where Ive never found a breast I didnt like. Small or large they are all good. Im not quite sure why your friend cares about guys attention towards her if she has a boyfriend (if I read correctly which doesnt happen all the time). I will agree that the girls I have known with the larger natural breasts have had back problems and could not wait to get them smaller. However, I have worked at a few strip clubs and was friends with many of the dancers. They never had back problems with the new and larger versions of themselves because apparently the implant is lighter than the real thing or something like that. But, I will agree that she should be happy with what she has.
