i dunno if its just me coz im so sensitive... but ive explored myself since i was 10! my bf plays down there and my clit gets sore. he puts pressure RIGHT ON THE TIP it hurts and i dry up. if its played with softly or on the top of it i get off... and i takes me ages to get off and he gets a sore hand!! i get off but not OO0O0O0O0O0HHHH....off... if you get what i mean. ive told him to be gentle and even helped him but the same thing happens again and again. doesnt bother me really just wondering if anyone else feels the same?
I know how that is. You get really used to the way you masturbate and when other people do it, it's like "ARE YOU TRYING TO RIP MY VAGINA OFF OR SOMETHING?!" Communication is the key. Masturbate for him, let him see how you do it.
Maybe when you give him a handjob next, start yanking it real hard so it hurts... and thn ask "Do you like that" and when he says "no" just say, "oh well and keep going, that should get the ball rolling n the arguments department and maybe just maybe he'll start taking heed.
She talks like she thinks her clit is abnormal and the problem is with her, and its not, her boyfriend is just being an ignorant dick head and doesnt even care that hes hurting her, or that their sexual experiences are not enjoyable for her.... shes already said she doesnt like it to him, hell she even showed him what she does like and he still wont listen... so when all else fails, scream him into submission!
i asked a simple question fucking hell sorry for being a DUMBSHIT and im sorry for my bf being a DUMBSHIT it doesnt bother me all that much i still get off i was just seeing if anyone else had felt like that jesus christ. and to the people who so politely helped me thanks
o girl, i am sorry how this post has turned out so far.. some of the people here are rude, to say the least... ok first of all, you are normal. Every girl is different and likes different things done to them.. You are more sensitive, and you like a gentel touch rather then a ruff bang.. so what?? Nothing wrong with that hun I am one of many, like yourself, that doesnt like my clit ruff handled.. believe it or not, some girls do enjoy that. I am also alot like you when it comes to orgasims. I dont make alot of noise, because it isnt usually too intense.. I know it sucks, but girls like us just need to find the right guy to please us the right way . And as you know, many guys cant even get us off, because of ignorance.. I dont think your boyfriend is ingorant, and I really think that you too will work through the clit problem together . Again... you are totally normal
i know how you feel...my boyfriend is great at giving head, but not so great with the hands.....i dont understand how he can be so good at one and not the other....
u wish jellfish! the furtherest u probs have ever been is groping a girl on her way past u on the dancefloor.... hay, do u reckon we could stick to one thread gimpy?
thanks!! hes great at oral i guess i am sesitive....great help guys! especially shadowd dreamr thankyou! ill keep my mouth shut next time i have a problem and pm the ones who are more than happy to help
actually I was going to reply saying I have the exact same problem sometimes lol to me if he is beside me it kind of hurts (but he does have really long nails so that may play a role too) but it just feels like he is putting too much pressure..however if he is in a differnt position , for example if he is sitting up and facing me while I lay back, it feels great...if you havent tried having him get in a differnt position you should..maybe his hand wont cramp up...if you have..well..I dont think you should start a fight but sometime (when your not getting ready to go at it) talk to him about it...like just bring it up when you think the time is right and after ask him if there is anything he wants you to change up a bit...hope that helps some
Just post it and ignore the assholes...dont take it personal that they are dissatisfied in their own lives so slander others (like soulless ).....
Feel free to pm me anytime ok.. Add me to your friends list if you want, so you dont forget my screen name . See!! lotsa girls have the same problem.. (whispers: its not just us hehe) I
Michael - u r a "dumbshit" because if you had actually attained this wisdom you pretend you have you would not flame innocent people...if a person does not understand how their subconscious works then they are innocent and should be left alone...but you do not know how a women works and you are an asshole for using your "information" against people...you are an amazing hypocrite. you seek attention by hrting people and basically noone likes you here because you offer nothing that is not wither sleazy, repulsive. rude/ offensive/self-satisfying or any other selfish disorder you posess. Green fairy perhaps has helped alot of women today who feel the same way about facing their partner because as you should know males are extremely sensitive to anything said about their performance...perhaps thats why you no know complaints of ur own...
wow...yeah...stick to talking to girls ok sweetie? some of the guys here seem to be missing something
Who have I slandered? All I've really said is that purposefully inflicting pain on your partner may well not be all that great of a solution to that, or any, problem.. Would you not agree?
