even if you didn't get to know her/him as much as you wish, do you belive that when you are older, the passion you once had for that person is ganna be greater than the love for your actual wife/husband? I do belive so. I guess that it 20 years, if I had the choise, I'd leave everything to return to the passion I once had. sadly but true what about you? except if you are with that person today,if it's the case, I'm truly happy for you
My first love will always be my first love, but that is all. As much as you may think about them and the time spent together, you can never return. What I am trying to say is... well, your first love then and now are two different people, and you are as well. You cannot rekindle that "first love" spark. I am in no way saying that the two of you are not capable of falling in love again, but it won't be the same....meh, maybe I feel this way because my first love cheated on me... love, al the pal
~*i thought about my first love every hour for the first few months we broke up, everyday for a year, every week for the year after that ~ that was over ten years ago ~ i think about him and our adventures together in the goods and the bads every once in a while even now, and i still feel so much whenever i do ~ i see him often and can get confused sometimes asking myself if i still love him or not ~ and i do, i love the memories and image that i have created for myself of him and what we had and who we were ~ i love that, and when i see him i am content in loving that image of the past freely because it is a part of me ~ wherever that may take me in my life now i am not exactly sure, but i am very much in love with my partner love now and after being together for several years i am in love with so many of our memories and happenings we have experienced and created together being in love and loving eachother ~ i have experienced not the same love because he is a different person, and i'd like to think that so am i since way back then! thanks for asking ~ that was nice*~
I do understand. maybe you are right, peoples change, things change. but right now, I think I would go back. maybe it suq for the person you live with, but you only have one life to live.
My first love was in highschool, we were together for 2 years, and i the end we grew apart becuse we got together so damn young. we were 2 years apart, so when he turned 18, it was like he was in a whole different world than me. I never see him anymore, but I think about him all the time. In the end, we both decided to break up, but once I had moved on, he wanted to get back together, and I said no. Somtimes I wonder if I did the right thing. He is married now, and I have a great boyfriend and we have a wonderful little girl together, but I still wonder what might have been. I feel so guilty about it at times. He and my boyfriend now were good friends when we were growing up. We all used to hang out together. The one thing that gets me through everything is that, I know I'm not the same person I was when we dated, and I'm sure he isn't either. I loved the old him, and thats the way I like to remember him.
I will always love my first love...but I think that I deserve better than them...so hopefully I will end up happier with the person I marry
I look at where he is now, and where I am now, and I realize that the past doesn't even compare to my present [and future] with the person I am with now. He was my first love, and though I think about things sometimes, I realize we are 2 completely different people. It never would have worked. I'm so much happier now.
I see every person as a first love, as a new experience. You know everyone is different and everyone is special in their own way, and cause of that you feel different emotions to different people. I see every relationship as a learning, growing procces. If that stops at some point, and the relationship can be great, but I feel the need to end it and move to someone else. Because all that we were going to be already are.. and I feel like I need to be in a constant process of evolution. I hope I'm making myself clear. So every relationship is a first love.. is unique.
I know exactly what you mean. I wonder the same thing. Kristin. My first love. I've been technically "over her" for a year or so, but I often wonder if I will ever have a love with the same power, the same obsessive passion, that I had for her. I just completely fell head over heels for her, in all ways, from the moment I met her, and the strength of the feeling was terrifying. Not the mention the fact that she was a girl (hence some of the terror)! Everything about her made me think of sex, what it would feel like to kiss her. I wanted to know everything she'd ever thought. So. Will I feel that again? I don't know. I assume it will take on a different form, a different vein...some other woman who can love me back and make me whole. But I do question.
i think i am in love, but i feel naive saying so. this is my first boyfriend, and i've always told myself i'd want to "experience" more people before settling down in any way, but he honestly seems perfect. at the same time, i recognize maybe i'm just enamoured iwth this new experience. sure, he's got flaws, but the thing is they're all so miniscule in comparison to how amazingly good he is for me. sometimes i think he's too perfect, and i wonder how long it'll take for him to turn into a control freak (my problem with relationships). i cant believe he exists. i'd definatley say he is my first love, and at the moment i can't imagine it any other way.
im still with my special love .. even tho ive had other before him, i eel liek he is the best one an i wouldnt exchange for johny depp himself or my future husband to be?
No one will be able to compare to my first love. She was genuine and one of a kind. But I think I'll be able to fall in love again, someday.
